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Old 11-03-2006, 07:49 PM   #1
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Lindsey.. I think you should cut all ties with this guy.. Stay away from him , he sounds like big trouble. Actually a nut job.From what you said he does have serious issues and he probably does not have any self esteem. This is a college guy that we are talking about right ?, he sounds very immature. I cannot believe that your teachers let him get away with this behavoir... By what you said he probably likes you big time and can't handle the rejection, I am not a phycologist but boy he has issues with women, big time!!.. As Pony said report it to the police , if your school is not doing anything about it. Just ignore him in class and let his gossip be just that gossip. In the future use better judgement who to confide in , it is going to be hard but as time goes along and he sees that he doesn't get the best of you, he probably will leave you alone.. Be careful hon , he is not normal.
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Old 11-05-2006, 04:56 PM   #2
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I'm back now and a little more calm. I've decided I'm going to just let it slide for 6 weeks. Any job he takes after graduation won't last long, I know that. Last year we both worked for the same company, but in different cities. One night after work he PUNCHED the engineer he was working with in the face. He wasn't offered a job this year with them, and they MADE a job for me to go back.
I'm just happy I won't have to deal with him anymore.... but I kind of wish I would have done something about it earlier.
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Old 11-06-2006, 06:39 AM   #3
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I'm back now and a little more calm. I've decided I'm going to just let it slide for 6 weeks. Any job he takes after graduation won't last long, I know that. Last year we both worked for the same company, but in different cities. One night after work he PUNCHED the engineer he was working with in the face. He wasn't offered a job this year with them, and they MADE a job for me to go back.
I'm just happy I won't have to deal with him anymore.... but I kind of wish I would have done something about it earlier.
Did the person he punched in the face file charges? They should have. This guy needs to get in trouble big time. He is too old to behave like this & in my personal opinion needs mental help. These are the kind of guys that rape & beat women, stay far far away from him.
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Old 11-06-2006, 08:39 AM   #4
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Did the person he punched in the face file charges? They should have. This guy needs to get in trouble big time. He is too old to behave like this & in my personal opinion needs mental help. These are the kind of guys that rape & beat women, stay far far away from him.
As far as I know, no charges were filed. He was fired and taken back 3 times I think, in the 8 months he worked there. I think he was taken back just because they were in the middle of big project that he was needed on, and they signed on for giving him 8 months of work experience which is required by this course.
I know he's got some definite problems... he used to brag to me about knocking out his own dad! I hope everything catches up to him soon.
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Old 11-29-2006, 07:14 PM   #5
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I know this is an old topic but I hope you're being careful
I'm so lucky that I've never had to deal with it, because even though I'm small, when I'm threatened I can be pretty scary and people just back off. Even guys who choose to try to throw me across a room.

be safe. and stay out if his way, don't get in a fight with him, it just isn't worth it.
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