Ok it's my turn to vent about mom!!

[Blueyes]

Sorry you are having a hard time! It's so difficult taking care of aging parents. Just try to take one day at a time, and do the best you can.

I took care of both of my parents and Mike's parents, too. He's an only child. For quite a while I had both of our mothers in the same room at the nursing home. Mike's mom died, 3 months later my mom died, 8 months later my dad died, a year later Mike's dad died.

I know your mom appreciates you caring for her. Remember to take some time to re-charge your own batteries. I'll be praying for you!

[paula1961]

Lynne, I know that this is so frustrating for you. I am so sorry. My prayers are going out to you and your Mom!

[DianaB]

That's a really high blood sugar reading. Maybe you need to have a doctor talk to her about how dangerous that is. If she likes ice cream then bring her some sugar free from the grocery store or some sugar free candy. There are some really good ones out there. They aren't fat free or calorie free but they sure help when your sweet tooth strikes!! From my own experience....it's very hard to stay away from the sweets and things you aren't suppose to have. I know that when Glen found out that he was diabetic the talk we had with the dietician was enough to scare you into eating right!!! Diabetes is really hard on your body!! Good luck and feel free to vent anytime!!

[judy]

It is so hard Lynne, and so sad for your Mom. I think Diana's idea of supplying her with sugar free sweets and ice cream is a good one. I hope she is able to stay in assisted living. If not, she will be safer in a NH, and that is for the best.

I am so sorry you and she have to go through this.

[Janet]

You know I'm behind you and trying to support whatever you need to do. I'm here for you, just like you always are for me. We're a pair arent' we? I'm glad we have each other to get through this with our mothers.