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Old 06-02-2010, 04:37 PM   #1
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Awww Diana I'm sorry things are so stressful right now, just take deep breaths, it will be over before you know it and it will all come together and be such a beautiful day in the end. I do hope the weather cooperates for you, thats about the only thing you have no control over.
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Old 06-02-2010, 04:45 PM   #2
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At least with Jaci in control of everything, she can't blame you if something goes wrong But everything will be fine! Have plenty of bottled water
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Old 06-03-2010, 05:10 AM   #3
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It's so soon! Before you turn around, the wedding will be over and everything will have worked out, one way or the other.

I'm sure it will be just beautiful, and a wonderful day! Jaci and Nate sound like they are very much in love, which is all that really matters. (Well...that, and that your side of the family enjoys themselves!)

Jaci sounds like Jessie., She wants to run her own show. At some point, I just took a back seat. I must say that I like it a lot. I really don't have to be responsible for her life. Of course, she is 37, and Jaci is 18.

Take a deep breath, and take lots of pictures!!!

PS It will serve your mil right if people see her mess. She has not been nice to you and yours.
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Old 06-03-2010, 05:30 AM   #4
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I'm sure the wedding will be beautiful Diana!! I can only imagine all the stress that you all are under right now. It will turn out lovely. Can't wait to see pix!!
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Old 06-03-2010, 07:47 AM   #5
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I wish I was there to help relieve some of your stress Diana. It's going to be beautiful and I can't wait to see a picture of the working fountain. They are right that with Jaci in charge...if something were to happen, she can't blame anyone else.

I know it will be a beautiful wedding and then you will be able to relax and do your own thing.
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Old 06-03-2010, 10:22 AM   #6
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Everyone is getting pretty upset with Jaci. She wants things her way but isn't around so we can get any thing done. She zigs when everyone else zags. She's doing inside things when outside things can be done. I just keep telling myself....three more days......three more days!!!!
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Old 06-03-2010, 12:13 PM   #7
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Good luck Diana - I am sure everyone is stressed out with the wedding including Jaci, she probably just wants everything done her way on her special day, and maybe doesnt realise how much she is upsetting people who are really trying to make thinks easy and being helpful.

As others have said, I would just try to enjoy it, and give her the oportunity to have things her way (even though maybe you know better ways to do things), at least then, she only has herself to blame doesnt she?

It is hard though when it is your child - you dont want people feeling she is not grateful, for the help and suggestions, and it can be embarrasing for you as a parent.

Not long now though - i will be thinking of you all, i hope the weather is good, and that it is a wonderful day for all of you.
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Old 06-03-2010, 01:29 PM   #8
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Everyone is getting pretty upset with Jaci. She wants things her way but isn't around so we can get any thing done. She zigs when everyone else zags. She's doing inside things when outside things can be done. I just keep telling myself....three more days......three more days!!!!
You know you should have called that show Bridezilla if there still on. Tell her this is the easy part the hard part comes right after the ceremony.

I'm sure the wedding will be beautiful, in fact I think you need to grab a chair place it in the middle of the garden and watch everyone work. Just kick back, relax and enjoy the show. Just a thought but I'm sure your working the hardest.

Wish all of you luck, can't wait to see pics of the wedding
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