I'm Going To Look At a Motorhome

[DIANE W]

Originally Posted by Janet

Sad to say it didn't work out....in more ways than one. The interior was really kind of cramped so that was disappointing. It was a lot smaller than I thought. My husband showed up and I could smell the beer on him. He wasn't drunk or anything...just smelled. I could tell he didn't like it and later told my son that he wasn't going to help take care of it if something happened to it. I really kind of thought that maybe it would help make things a bit better between us if we could do some of the things we used to do. But....I really don't think it will. Alcoholics suck to live with......

So.......I'm telling him today that I want out of this hole of a marriage. What a way to start the holidays.

Oh Janet.... I am so sorry it didnt work out for you with the motor. I think it was just not meant to be.

With regards to your husband Janet, I only know bits about your life that you have shared on here, but I honestly think you should definitely get out and make a new start, you know what i am going through with my Aunt etc, and Janet life is TOO SHORT to wait for the right time, the right time is now if that is how you are feeling.

I truely understand that the practicalities will be difficult to sort out, but you owe it to yourself to have a happy life. Your son is old enough to deal with how things are and i am sure he will support you and you can help each other through it all.

I am sorry for spouting all this, but i do feel like i can give you my opinion as it is only given through concern and well meaning.

I am sure you will do what you believe is right.

A big hug coming to you from England

[Janet]

Diane I appreciate your comments more than you know. He's out in the garage right now, but when he comes inside....we'll have a talk. I'm a little nervous, but we have to get this out in the open. I can tell he's not any happier than I am, but I also know that he will be mean about it all. Just keep me in your prayers.

[DIANE W]

Originally Posted by Janet

Diane I appreciate your comments more than you know. He's out in the garage right now, but when he comes inside....we'll have a talk. I'm a little nervous, but we have to get this out in the open. I can tell he's not any happier than I am, but I also know that he will be mean about it all. Just keep me in your prayers.

Janet, I had to come back on and see if you had posted, I am worried about you, I agree though, he may find it difficult to hear what you have to say.

Maybe this could be the turning point for him and will shock him into action????

I am wishing you good luck and will be thinking and praying that it goes well for you, now you be strong, I cant begin to understand what you are experiencing, but you will cope just fine - I just know it will work out for you.

Now you keep on posting wont you, because i will be watching for updates.

[paula1961]

Oh Janet I'm just reading this. I will keep you in my prayers sweetie. I am sending a ton of love and hugs your way. I have been there and done that and it is not easy but you will be so much happier when it is over and done with. I just want happiness and peace for you.......you so deserve it!

[DianaB]

Janet, I'm so sorry. I knew that things were not good. I hope that everything works out for the best and on good terms. Hugs, Girlfriend!!

[JJJ]

I have only seen a couple of complains toward your hubby so I don't have the whole scoop. I am sure you have run this through over and over and I know how hard it can be. I hope the conversation goes smoothly, my only advice now is that it's time to think about yourself now.

GOOD LUCK

[Lindsey]

Janet I'm so sorry about everything. But you deserve to be happy! You are strong and you can get through it and you will be so happy in the end. Good luck!