What's Going On........

[DianaB]

Yes, she bought it. Things are so stressful with family and buying the house.....and getting a loan that she needs him to not be so grumpy. I recommended that maybe next time he go to the doctor and get some patches. I thought that with them not living together that it would be a good time but not with everything going on.

Dae Lynn's working on getting a low income loan. It's a hassle but she's a smart girl and will get it figured out. She's got excellent credit history but Damon has horrible credit history and even has some things that were never paid for before they got married hanging over his head. It may not work out on the loan.....we'll see.....they said that they would let her know in a couple of days. Dae Lynn's up and down with all of this going on.

We're not telling any of the kids about them buying the house until they have got the loan and everything is set.....otherwise they'll hear negative things from the other kids. It gets so old!!

[Janet]

Well I hope things work out for her. Would it help to just have it in her name since Damon's credit is so bad? I'm sure Dae Lynn will do what is best for both of them. Have you told Glen yet?

[DianaB]

The loan will be taken out in Dae Lynn's name because of her good credit history. They should be getting a letter either today or tomorrow to let them know about the loan. I sure hope they get it. They deserve a break!!

Yes, Dae Lynn finally told Glen. Actually, they couldn't buy a house with a rental so Glen is buying the rental but it's with the kid's money. We're not paying anything. It's in name only so they can get the loan.....then we'll sign it back over to them in a year or so. Again.....they will be paying ALL expenses. It was a loophole that Dae Lynn found a way around. The guy she talked to told her she was pretty smart for figuring that out!!!

They'll tell the rest of the family as soon as they are sure they have financing. Glen's not happy about that but if they don't get the loan they don't need the rest of the family saying that they should have known that they couldn't do that......so tired of the put-downs and negative remarks.

[Janet]

I know how you feel Diana. Really Glen should be happy about it. Dae Lynn told her parents....it's really no one else's business what they buy. I'm wishing her the best of everything...I know she has to be excited and I don't want her to be disappointed.

[judy]

Good for Dae Lynn and Damon! Let the naysayers talk to each othere if they have what to say!

I wish them the best, and am keeping them and the kids in my prayers!

[DianaB]

Thanks Guys!!

Dae Lynn got a letter yesterday and it sounded like they were turned down but that they would work with them on getting the loan.......when she called that wasn't so. They were declined because of Damon's bad credit history. The credit place that they looked was different than what Dae Lynn looked at and it was much, much worse. Dae Lynn was in tears and I felt so bad for her.

This morning I have the kids and she and Damon are in at the bank talking to them. I hope that it's good news. They will be checking all of their options with them.......we have a great bank that we go to and they know Dae Lynn.....and Glen, so hopefully they will be able to come up with something to help them out.....in Dae Lynn's name, of course. I'm anxious to hear what they're finding out.

Dae Lynn got a really nice FB e-mail from the lady who owns the house, she's a friend from church.....and she told them how excited she was to have them own her house. It was so sweet of her.....she a very dear woman. I just hope it all works out.

[paula1961]

I sure hope that everything works out with the house for Dae Lyn. I truly believe that everyone deserves a second chance. And I am a firm believer in that when someone is down........you don't kick them. I wish them all the luck in the world.