What would you do?

[DianaB]

I would do the talking but Glen is very respected by my Mom and she'll be more likely to listen to him. I've tried to let her know that I have a problem with my brother but it just makes her mad. He'll probably talk to her on Sunday and I'll be there but he'll most likely do most of the talking.

As for brother........Glen would definitely be better talking to him than me. He's better at dealing with the lies that my brother tells.......in that he turns them around and asks my brother if he really expects us to believe them. Trust me.......he dealt with my Dad when he was alive too!!

My brother was talking about applying for a job at the grade school too. I'm sorry but I would have to call the school and let them know that they wouldn't want him there.

My brother, besides having affairs on his wives (4 wives so far), has been in court for molestation of a little boy with the boy's father (I'm not sure what went on with this because it was never talked about), he has been fired from a job for sexual misconduct, he has a girlfriend (on drugs) that he is talking about marrying but talks about another girl more than his girlfriend. He has gone to women's homes when their husbands were gone and asked them if they wanted to have an affair with him. Trust me.......I wouldn't put anything past him.

I've let him be around because of my Mom but it's time to put my foot down.

[JJJ]

Diana you guys are doing the right thing. Do not let him around any child because you don't know if he can contain himself. It is so hard and sad but it's reality. You are a wonderful person taking care of your granddaughters. Some people will ignore the facts because there embarrassed it goes on in their family. Good for you.

[DianaB]

Thanks, Jessica. He's been a concern for years and so all of the granddaughters have been warned to stay away from him.

Mom's going to be gone this Sunday and we will be gone for the next two weekends so this is going to have to be put on hold. The whole situation just makes me sick. Why is it that I have ONE brother and he's such a jerk!!

[Blueyes]

I wouldn't just warn my grand daughters to stay away from him, I'd warn my grandsons, too. Do what you have to do to protect your family at all costs! Good job Diana.

[DianaB]

Thank you, Betsi!!

[Janet]

Hoping after you're safely home from your cruise you will update us on how things went between Glen and your mother. I hope she understands the concerns and will not be too hurt.

[Janet]

Time for an update Diana! Hope things went well and are getting better.