Just Not Going To Work!

[Janet]

Originally Posted by DianaB

Janet, if you really don't think that she'll ever be cominig back home then I would definately make an effort to make sure that she knows that you love her and say everything that you would want to say to her. Maybe write her a letter and tell her the things that you are proud of her for. You may never have that chance to tell her. Don't leave things the way they are.

My Dad died so suddenly. We knew that he wasn't in good health and I knew that he could go any time, but he had emphysema and I thought that he would linger with his breathing, but it ended up that his heart gave out and he was alone when he died. I told him often that I loved him but there were other things that I would have liked to have said too.

I've thought seriously about your advice. I may do what you suggest..I just don't know yet. I know it would end up in a confrontation of some sort, so I'll consider it a little bit more, see if I can find a way that won't get a smart remark from her.