Strip Clubs

[Mandy]

I have no problem with stripclubs, and young unattached guys going there, i mean.... let them live, and enjoy those pityful woman while they single, but for a guy that's attached to go there, to me is a big no no! What do they want there? Sure it might be a guy thing, as porn movies is a guy thing, but i have to wonder how it would make men feel, if we had to drool all over other men stripping, and doing their thing? Would it make them feel musculine? I don't think so! At least, i don't think the average man would appreciate he's wife/gf, watching or going to clubs like that! So for married men, and attached guys, those clubs should be banned for sure!

[rivermom]

I've never really given it much thought. My husband doesn't go to them and well neither do I.

[Ponyup]

I don't think my husband really likes going. sometimes we'll all go together with some friends for something to do, but that's it. I would only have a problem with him going if he didn't tell me he was going.

[Tink]

I have a real issue with being lied to, regardless of the topic.
If you don't think you're doing anything wrong, why hide it? And if you think it's wrong, why do it?

I have been to strip clubs a couple of times and just don't see the appeal. I do see how it hurts some relationships, and for that reason alone, I don't approve. I feel the same about singles bars, drug use and heavy drinking. If something else is becoming more important than your marriage or family, you need to reassess your priorities.

**getting off my soap box now**

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Tink

I have a real issue with being lied to, regardless of the topic.
If you don't think you're doing anything wrong, why hide it? And if you think it's wrong, why do it?

I have been to strip clubs a couple of times and just don't see the appeal. I do see how it hurts some relationships, and for that reason alone, I don't approve. I feel the same about singles bars, drug use and heavy drinking. If something else is becoming more important than your marriage or family, you need to reassess your priorities.

**getting off my soap box now**

I agree 110% with everything said here. I know all men are different, but if my hubby ever had the desire to go to a strip club instead of be home with me, there would be some major problems in my house and we would be doing some serious counseling.

i wouldnt be happy if my partner wanted to go to one and i know he wouldnt like it if i did.
lucky that we dont really have that many in the uk and none near where we live and i know my partner wouldnt wanna go to one anyway, he would go red lol
and he doesnt like that kind of thing anyway.
but i must admitt if he did go to one i would make sure i went to a ladys night strip club just so he knows how it feels even though i cant think of anything worse than having some strange mans dangley bits pushed in my face lol