Single?

[cindy0721]

Don't sweat it Lindsey... seriously.... look at the bright side..... better you found out what a jerk he is now then lets say 5 yrs down the road.... let it go... chuck it as experience.... look... whenever you are feeling down think this,"What doesn't break us only makes us stronger", yes cliche but true... your alive right? You can walk , use your hands to eat and dress yourself? You are still good looking and have a job and a roof over your head right? It could be alot worse.... just smile and breathe in deep..... every cloud has a silver lining..... you should seriously look for that book , "he's just not into you"..... maybe it will open your eyes to other things.. you know

[Lindsey]

The thing is, I have that book, I had it before I met him, and I checked him against EVERY point when we started dating. He was that perfect guy. So I fell in love with him, the first guy I've ever fallen in love with. Then out of nowhere, he just changed. He went on a trip without me, and lost his feelings for me somewhere out in the mountains.
I know it could be a lot worse, and everytime I think that I feel so selfish and weak for making a big deal out of it. Life goes on. Even though I don't feel ready for a relationship I know the one thing that will get me over him fast is another guy. I hate to rebound but I just want to so bad. Unfortunately every guy i've met that i might be interested in just happens to know my ex. He's more well-known than I thought. I can meet a random guy on the street and they know each other.

[cindy0721]

lol... how about going on a mini trip..somewhere else ? Or maybe visiting your hometown?

[Lindsey]

I don't go back to my hometown too often because I just end up sitting in my parents house, watching tv by myself. There's only 500 people in the town, and my friends are long gone and never go back there either. As for a mini-trip, I don't have a whole lot of friends here to go anywhere with, plus my funds are running pretty low!