sooooooooo ANGRY!

[Lindsey]

I finally agree, I AM BETTER than that. For the past couple of days all I think about is what I don't like about him and his group of friends. Every night of the week can be drunk night. As soon as I moved here to be with him, I was always second place to his friends. He's different when he's with them, and I guess that's the important thing to him right now. He doesn't want to grow up, and I did bring up the possibility of pregnancy before and he basically said it would ruin his life. When I decide to date again I hope I find someone with a little more responsibility. Now I'm glad we broke up, I just wish I would have been the one to do it. If only I knew then what I know now.

[Mandy]

Cant turn back time, and cant changed what happend in the past, but you can move on, and change things for yourself.
You can do better then that, you deserve better then him, if i were in your shoes, i would never ever want to see that jerk again EVER!!
Forget about him Lindsey, shut that book, and "throw it out" go live your life!!

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Cant turn back time, and cant changed what happend in the past, but you can move on, and change things for yourself.
You can do better then that, you deserve better then him, if i were in your shoes, i would never ever want to see that jerk again EVER!!
Forget about him Lindsey, shut that book, and "throw it out" go live your life!!

I agree - the chapter has ended in this book and it's time for you to move on. The true colors of this guy is being seen. It's probably best that you are not pregnant because this would only open up a entirely new can of worms.

It's your time to learn from this relationship. You deserve great things and will find them.

[Lindsey]

He talked to me on MSN yesterday and apologized for being a jerk. He said I put him on the spot, and he was drunk, and he didn't know what to say. He admitted he didn't handle it well. I told him I was upset but I dealt with it on my own and the result was negative. I also told him I'm taking another test this Friday since I was sick yesterday morning and this morning. Hopefully I can just chalk it up to having the flu.
He also told me his parents still care, they told him I'm a nice girl and wanted him to say hi to me for them. Half of the hurt over this breakup was over losing them. I'm not at all close to my own parents and they just took me right in and gave me hugs! I'm glad they still want to be sort of in contact.
Finally, he saw my new big purchase and said "Niiiiice bike! How pumped are you??" So we had bike talk for awhile, and I told him I'm glad I got a sexier bike than him! I hope that one of these days it'll just go back to how it used to be before we dated... i want to be normal with him and with his friends. I wish I didn't get involved at all, we used to be so close.

[Chandra Amaya]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

I finally agree, I AM BETTER than that. For the past couple of days all I think about is what I don't like about him and his group of friends. Every night of the week can be drunk night. As soon as I moved here to be with him, I was always second place to his friends. He's different when he's with them, and I guess that's the important thing to him right now. He doesn't want to grow up, and I did bring up the possibility of pregnancy before and he basically said it would ruin his life. When I decide to date again I hope I find someone with a little more responsibility. Now I'm glad we broke up, I just wish I would have been the one to do it. If only I knew then what I know now.

I know exactly what you mean hun. My ex did almost the same thing. I'm so proud of you for realizing you deserve better. & don't beat yourself up over not being the one to end it. We all learn more about ourselves & the people around us through our life expierences. Just remember that someday it won't hurt as much, if at all, & going through the situation will help you to learn something about yourself & make you a stronger person in the long run. BTW congrats on not being PG. That jerk doesn't deserve a child