caring Vs. "strong"

[A Man]

Although society is changing, boys are often taught to be strong and not cry. Men should show emotion when they feel it, be it in happiness, such as winning a poker game, or in sadness, like death. Baby boys cry when they are sad and smile when they are happy, so it looks like society has an influence on that, at least in American society.

So most men are not used to showing emotion.