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03-26-2007, 05:21 PM
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Sorry to hear about this story and the hurt that he created. You had put your trust in him. Just curious did he ever tell you that he wanted more out of this relationship? I don't know about the office hoe, would you think that she would lie? What reason would she have to. I believe he was dishonest with you from the get go, and he preyed on your kind character..
You have been working on the job for over 20 years , I am assuming that you are an older woman and he was a older man. I am sorry to say but by him leaving without a goodbye tells me he his not a nice person. For you to email him and for his response to be none of your business, he is so wrong, he lead you on for 18 mts. you deserve more than that. Like Janet said write him a letter, but I would email it to him. Just put your cards on the table and let him know what a despeciable person that he is, and what goes around, comes around. I am sorry but he sounds like a player not a decent person. I think once you write your thoughts and send it to him, it will be a satisfaction, I know when I am fuming I need to vent to get it off my chest. I don't think this relationship will resurect and I don't think you should want it to. You need to move forward and remember that you are a decent person and good things will come to you.. Good luck! 
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03-26-2007, 05:22 PM
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Sorry about the smiley on top, I couldnt delete it after I submited it..
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03-26-2007, 07:18 PM
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Shada, the best revenge is to go on and be happy without him. You loved the man he pretended to be... not the butthead lowlife he really is. No man worth having would treat a woman the way he treated you.
I hope your heart heals soon and you're able to find love with a man who truly deserves you. Hugs
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03-26-2007, 07:25 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this. Some people are just so inconsiderate of the feelings of others. With time, you will look back on this and be so glad that you have moved on! I hope you feel better soon girl!
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