First Grade Girl....

Originally Posted by Chandra Amaya

I agree you did the right thing. I know its hard & you feel for her but she has to learn what is appropiate from somewhere. If everone just allows her to get away with things because of the horrible situation she is in, then she will grow up to believe what she does is acceptable & eventually use her homelife as an excuse instead of a reason to strive for something better. As she gets older & starts to understand "how society works" alittle better, just continue to let her know you are there if she needs someone. Maybe if she starts talking social services will remove her from the home or atleast she will open up to people who can lead her in the right direction.

It is wonderful to know that some bus drivers/ School officials/ ect still do care. My 8 yr old son & 11 yr old daughter (both very small for their ages) ride with high school students. I can't drive them because my oldest son has to be picked up & dropped off as they get out & it is too far away to do both. These high school students harass & beat on the elementary students & despite my attempts to try to talk with the school about solutions, no one seems to care. I have suggested having elementary on separate buses, an extra school official on the bus to keep order while the driver drives. None of this happens. My son has come home bleeding from just to the side of his eye, holding his stomach, with gum stuck in his hair, has cans & bottles throw at him (which for one should not be allowed on the bus & for 2 that's how his eye got busted...by a GLASS bottle), & with many cuts & bruises. My daughter finally got fed up with being hurt & started fighting back. Mysteriously, the driver saw her hit back & she was suspended from the bus for 3 days. The excuse is always "they didn't see the person" who hit my kids & can't just take other students on the bus' word for what happened. I wish I had some way to get them there without the bus. I wonder daily which one will be hurt & how badly.

girl dont worry about venting our school district just adpated the idea of having all schools except middle and high school are inthe same school and will ride the same buses home and etc and basically they tell me that they will never see each other, yeah right when i send my twins to school i want them to be able to feel safe and not intimidated by these kids that are bullies, and i cannot continue to work full time and not be able to pick them up from school, my only other solution was to go to day care after school sice they have one bus that goes to day care.
its sad how can you haev that i mean we have kids in the 6th grade haveing intercourse and such and fighting and startinf fires etc i mean all that crazy stuff and i want my innocent kindergarteners ont he bus with them, its sad and sickening

tehy need to be serperated and they need to stick with their age groups


on the subject of this littel girl, its so sad i have an aunt who had 4 kids and her first 2 she had normal and the last 2 se became big time on drugs, and during the raising of these kids they were not there, sleeping all day and doing drgs all night

my grandma raised them and now the youngest i think is 13 and he tried to be bad but he tred to be good from all of us helping him and i finally told them off one day and told them they need to do better for thier kids to be parents and you know the dad pulled his head out of his butt and e workds now and he bought a car and stuff anf the mom is just still cracked out
its sad
but you know i can onlyhope that this little girl can remeber to see what you have done and can continue to do for her and take that with her in life, i mean thats so sad to have her reaised liek that and asking boys to do that oh no i mean thats a case of well anything these boys minds wander to

and if she says that to the wrong boy or to the wrong age boy then lord knows what might be done to her

uhh and you can turn the family in over and over and most likley nothing will happen we have seen it done to many times.
i can only pray for her and her family
it breaks my heart to see that littel girl let down