It's going to be an awkward night

[Mandy]

Oh Lindsey, im sorry your going through another break up, that sux! Obviously he is very insecure. Every relationship is based on trust, if you dont have that, it's bound to be unstable. Give yourself time, and like Judy, and Angie said.... treat yourself to some nice chocolates, they work like magic

[Lindsey]

I think I need lots of chocolate, ice cream, and puppy kisses. I'm still just PRAYING that all of a sudden he will change and I will start having feelings for him and it won't have to end.

[judy]

Now you're talking Lindsey! He most certainly does not deserve to move on, be happy, nor have a (crazy, jealous) new girlfriend. In fact, he should be in bed most of the day crying and the rest of the time either throwing up or having the runs (you choose). It wouldn't hurt if he got acne and gained about 25 pounds either.

I love thoughts of revenge. A dash of self-pity is good too. I think they're healthy and honest. Just don't stay there too long.

I still stand behind my cure - chocolate.

[Lindsey]

Hahaha awww that put a big smile on my face. And if I had a choice, I'd choose throwing up AND the runs at the same time. That just makes it more interesting.
Actually, on Friday he said he cried for days over me when we broke up. I know he cried that night because he did it right in front of me, but to admit crying for days was impressive for a guy. I don't know if I believe it though, considering he slept with another girl not even a week later.
I know that I was a big loss for him. None of his friends can stand his new girl and they're all still friends with me! Even my friends have said, out of nowhere "I just saw Ryden with his new girlfriend... I'm not being biased because I'm your friend, you seriously are so much prettier!" And I know it's mean to judge someone on their looks, but I know she's an ugly person on the inside, and she thinks she's the hottest girl alive! So comments like that lift me up a little too

[judy]

"I don't know if I believe it though, considering he slept with another girl not even a week later. "





But you were on a break!

[Lindsey]

Right! Ugh I can't believe how fast guys can just get over someone! Or at least don't feel guilty about using someone else to get over someone!

[Gina]

Lindsey help me out here.lol Kyle broke up with you because of the incident the other night with Ryden? So who is sleeping with a new girl within a week of knowing her? Kyle or Ryden? geezeeeee I can't keep up here...lol

Well apparently you still have feelings over Ryden and I am sorry I saw this post after the fact that you ran into him at the function. He went out of his way to speak to you looks like to clear the air and his own guilt from what you had said in the past of him bad mouthing you. Honesty I would have heard him out and nothing more, and continue to have been cold to him that night. He doesn't deserve your friendship. As far as Kyle he was just jealous and hurt, guys at that age have an macho image to protect. He is acting childish in breaking up with you, if he truly cares he will be back and men need to be reassured that they are the only one in your life. But you are young don't settle for any bs...Anyway I hope I got part of the story right..

Judy is right chocolate always does it for me!! lol

[Lindsey]

Sorry for the confusion! Ryden said he cried over me for weeks... although a lot of people have told me he was already with a new girl within a week of breaking up with me. He tries to portray himself as the perfect caring boyfriend, but there were countless times he looked me in the eye to tell me he hadn't touched drugs when he was obviously high, plus all the stuff he told his friends about me. Then he tries to tell me he didn't lie to me throughout our whole relationship.
Kyle and I talked it over yesterday and as of now we are together, but I don't think I have much hope for us. We never come to a compromise on anything, we just eventually try to stop fighting about it until it comes up again. I don't want to settle with someone who's not right for me, but I also don't want to be lonely.