What to do?

[DianaB]

I think that if it were me, I'd be selling the car too. If I were making payments on it then I'd consider it mine! I would never co-sign another note with this person either and I'd keep my purse and other valuables hidden or locked up when they were there. It's easier to prevent them from taking things then it is to try and get it back. I know that the advice that we've given is easier said then done so good luck with what ever you decide to do.