My Dad

[judy]

Dear Melissa,

I'm so sorry about your Dad. MY Father dies about 11 years ago of lung cancer.
I feel the same way as Janet does. He's not gone, I still talk to him, and he's still never going to leave me. He watches over me just like when he was alive.

But, the pain is new for you, and it does hurt so much. Please come here and talk about whatever you need to. We'll always support you and your feelings.

My deepest condolences.

Melissa,

I too lost my father January 27, 2006 from liver cancer. I understand how you feel and my heart goes out to you. I know how difficult it is and I am not over it either. I still wake up some mornings and think he's still a live and reality sets in. My dad has a heavy drug/alcohol user and I really wasn't close to him and I have so many regrets and I've said horrible things to him. I'm thankful that we did forgive each other for all of our mistakes. I can't even beleive that in 10 days it will be a year. Sometimes I wonder how life goes on and why God would do such a thing. I've learned to stop questioning God and that he did it for a reason. The only advice I have is to turn to God and let him heal your broken heart! My heart goes out to you and your not alone!