Too much or too little?

[judy]

Originally Posted by rivermom

Possibly you can just call her and ask. Explain you are in no way trying to cause her ill feelings by writing updates and if it bothers her you will no longer do so.


She will appreciate you thinking of her feelings and wanting to take them into consideration.

I totally agree Sheryl. She'll be able to be more honest on the phone than on YT for all the members to see.

I had to rehome a cat years ago and would have loved to get updates on her. I called the new owners, but they didn't call back. I figured they didn't want to feel a connection to her old home, but I'd sure love to know how she was doing.