Caution contain's adult situation!!

[lynne b]

For your reply's and comment's. I am sorry the damage has already been done, not to me but to my daughter by her husband. Thing's have not been good for them for the last few year's and they were getting worse as the year's went by but she was trying to do the right thing by standing by him and trying to get him the help he need's. He is addicted to script drug's and lost a very good paying job 2 yr's ago for stealing to support his habit, they lost their home, car's and are in so far in debt that I could no way help them enough finacially to make a difference.
He is in jail still but his parent's are trying to scrape up the bail for him to get out. I am so dreading that day. The whole situation has been placed in the states hands so he will defianatly be doing some time, not only for this but for the previous theft charges as well. One of my main problem's is my daughter is feeling so guilty about taking her daughter's father away from them and it dosent matter what I say I cant make her see that it was not her fault. I know it will take time and she is finally going to talk with someone tomorrow (counsler) and I hope them can get her to see this. It just breaks my heart that I cant do anything to make this all go away for her , I just want my little girl back . I think I will be seeking some counseling before this is all done.
Thank's for just letting me get this off my chest. And Janet I know you are there for me and you have heard this from the begining but I can not thank you enough.
Gotta love ya girl.
Lynne