I think it's over.

[Lindsey]

Originally Posted by pearl

just two cents, don't want to throw a monkey wrench, but if it's over for good you think sometime, travel! see all you want to see. do different jobs, meet different people. you're way young and this is the time.
i didn't get married till i was 36, had my daughter at almost 39. i did a lot of stuff and don't regret it. got divorced after 5 years and didn't date for 7 years. now, at age 54, am in a wonderful relationship that has give and take and independence.
so, it's true being single is fine. being married is fine. it's up to you.

Wow, old thread. Kyle and I have stayed together, but he knows I'm trying to get a job in Australia next year, so we're just not making any long-term plans. We've had rough patches but we do have fun together and we know each other really well, and I think we're both learning from each other. I guess knowing that it won't last forever, I've been able to let some things go that would really bother me if I thought we would be getting more serious. No matter what, I won't be giving up my dreams to travel. He can think what he wants about it but it's my life and he doesn't own me. I need to make my own path and do my own thing and be my own person!