bad weekend

Lindsey · 04-20-2008, 05:11 PM

Thank you Kat. I've been like this for as long as I can remember. I slit my wrists on my 18th birthday. It was the scariest night of my life. My mom knows but she covered it up so nobody in the family knows she has a crazy daughter.
I just went for a drive and drove past the houses of every guy who's screwed me over, and then I drove by the river to try to lift my spirits and then I went way out of town and got lost. I finally found my way back and drove past my boyfriend's house to see he's still not at home, still partying it up for his mom's birthday that I was invited to but then ditched.

Marilyn · 04-20-2008, 05:22 PM

Lindsey, next time something like this happens, wash you face, go get a nice inexpensive gift and go to the party. The party is for her, not for your BF. Smile and have a good time in spite of him. He'll want to be with the coolest girl in the room, who BTW is you!!!!

Lindsey · 04-20-2008, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Marilyn

Lindsey, next time something like this happens, wash you face, go get a nice inexpensive gift and go to the party. The party is for her, not for your BF. Smile and have a good time in spite of him. He'll want to be with the coolest girl in the room, who BTW is you!!!!

But he wouldn't tell me where the party was, I still don't know where they are

Marilyn · 04-20-2008, 05:25 PM

BTW, I know it's much easier said than done, but don't worry about the past. Let the past worry about the past. Think about the future and all the wonderful adventures ahead of you. Kyle needs to wake up and realize what a sweet person he has for a GF. We know what a special, kind, responsible, caring person you are, so he should surely know!!!

04-20-2008, 05:33 PM

I know what the lack of sex drive is like. It's so frustrating knowing you that you can't/don't have the desire to give that part of you to your boyfriend even though you want to be able to. I will say that it's NOT you..Im almost positive that it's the BC. I was on it and lack of a sex drive is one of the most common. Do some research on different kinds and get another perscription.

Good luck to you

Lindsey · 04-20-2008, 05:38 PM

kyle just called me and yelled at me again. he said i know why he's mad. he's still mad because i didn't have sex with him.

Dobie · 04-20-2008, 05:50 PM

I don't want this to come out wrong, I don't know you well - but after working in the human services field for over 20 years, some of the things you've said have sent up some flags for me. You've said that he's a really nice guy - but please take a step back and really look at your relationship. It sounds as though he's trying to control a lot of what you do, and that's not healthy. I think Janet is right, you do sound depressed and that is nothing to be ashamed of. The depression can also really knock out your sex drive.
I really hope things improve for you.

goofywife · 04-20-2008, 07:11 PM

I am really sorry you are having a hard time now. I could totally be wrong, I have just seen some of this to much in my life, but, I think the pot is calling the kettle black. Why is he so quick to accuse you of something. Smells fishy. It seems like he is finding a way to blame things on you for things he may be doing.

Again, I could be wrong. Here are some hugs

04-20-2008, 05:11 PM	#1
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Thank you Kat. I've been like this for as long as I can remember. I slit my wrists on my 18th birthday. It was the scariest night of my life. My mom knows but she covered it up so nobody in the family knows she has a crazy daughter. I just went for a drive and drove past the houses of every guy who's screwed me over, and then I drove by the river to try to lift my spirits and then I went way out of town and got lost. I finally found my way back and drove past my boyfriend's house to see he's still not at home, still partying it up for his mom's birthday that I was invited to but then ditched. __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

04-20-2008, 05:22 PM	#2
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Lindsey, next time something like this happens, wash you face, go get a nice inexpensive gift and go to the party. The party is for her, not for your BF. Smile and have a good time in spite of him. He'll want to be with the coolest girl in the room, who BTW is you!!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

04-20-2008, 05:25 PM	#4
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	BTW, I know it's much easier said than done, but don't worry about the past. Let the past worry about the past. Think about the future and all the wonderful adventures ahead of you. Kyle needs to wake up and realize what a sweet person he has for a GF. We know what a special, kind, responsible, caring person you are, so he should surely know!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

04-20-2008, 05:38 PM	#6
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	kyle just called me and yelled at me again. he said i know why he's mad. he's still mad because i didn't have sex with him. __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

04-20-2008, 07:11 PM	#8
goofywife Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 855	I am really sorry you are having a hard time now. I could totally be wrong, I have just seen some of this to much in my life, but, I think the pot is calling the kettle black. Why is he so quick to accuse you of something. Smells fishy. It seems like he is finding a way to blame things on you for things he may be doing. Again, I could be wrong. Here are some hugs __________________ Michelle (Katys mom) OK Yorkie Rescue-Another Chance at Love

04-20-2008, 05:33 PM	#5
Gutu28 Guest Posts: n/a	I know what the lack of sex drive is like. It's so frustrating knowing you that you can't/don't have the desire to give that part of you to your boyfriend even though you want to be able to. I will say that it's NOT you..Im almost positive that it's the BC. I was on it and lack of a sex drive is one of the most common. Do some research on different kinds and get another perscription. Good luck to you

04-20-2008, 05:50 PM	#7
Dobie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,075	I don't want this to come out wrong, I don't know you well - but after working in the human services field for over 20 years, some of the things you've said have sent up some flags for me. You've said that he's a really nice guy - but please take a step back and really look at your relationship. It sounds as though he's trying to control a lot of what you do, and that's not healthy. I think Janet is right, you do sound depressed and that is nothing to be ashamed of. The depression can also really knock out your sex drive. I really hope things improve for you.

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