Have you ever has something hurt your feelings?

[Marilyn]

Dobie, maybe they are just not thinking when they are posting. As others have said, you are working to make a difference. We would all have different opinions of nursing homes if everyone working in them had your attitude. We would probably be praising them. Please do not be discouraged!! We need more people like you!!!!!!!!!!!!

My own mother was in a nursing home for 5 years, during which time I visited her almost every day. I have some stories to tell.

Please stay excited and help change the world!!! We need you out there!!!

[Janet]

I agree with Diana Dobie. They were being inconsiderate of your feelings. There are good and bad in everything...no matter what it is. We have (had now) a very bad nursing home that my hubby's grandmother was in. The way some of the people were treated made me sick. It was fined and watched closely. Now under very caring management and do very well with it's care.

My Mother-in-law was in a very nice home and we had no complaints. They were all very attentive. You're making a difference, so please don't let some unkind comments derail you.

[Tink]

Dobie, I've worked in nursing homes and know it's a tough job and if you don't love it and the people there, you really should find a different kind of work. Those people deserve respect and caring helpers and I get the impression that's what you strive for... So they're lucky to have you.

Please try not to let others opinions and judgments get you down. It's wrong to generalize and judge you based on others poor experiences. Just do the job the best you can and you'll prove their opinions were wrong. That's much more effective than arguing with them anyway.

HUGS

[Dobie]

Thanks - you've made me feel a lot better.