abusive relationship help

[Janet]

Originally Posted by JingleT

My opinion is that, no matter what anyone tells you or shares with you here, you are going to make excuses for him and yourself. I think you both need counseling..PRONTO!

You sound very immature, so as another poster advised, do not bring babies into your life until you've grown up and figured out that it's not OK to hit anyone ever for any reason (unless of course you are defending yourself against a physical attack) No excuses. I don't see how you can't understand that. Until you do, you don't need to be in any relationship.

He sounds like a ticking time bomb and the next time it might be worse! As long as you keep making excuses and don't do anything to change the situation, nothing will change. You're in for a lot of grief.

I'm sorry JingleT, but we just don't accept attacks here. She was asking for advice, all of us gave her the advice we thought best. Yes most were different in some ways, but none made such a harsh statement.

I want to welcome you to 4WT, but hope you will post with a kinder heart.

[Gina]

I agree with Janet , Jingles you did come off so hard on the poor girl.. The way you post sounds like you know her and know that she will not listen.. So what !she asked we all gave our opinions who are we to tell her to heed to us. You were out of line.. We are not professionals..

Anyway welcome to 4wt!