Never knew it would be so hard

[lynne b]

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers, they really mean alot.

DianaB: Most of the places I have talked with have been very helpful, they have made phone calls for me or let me sit in their office's and talk with other places, it seems that when i give the ok for the place where she is at now to send the information on mom so they can review it and see what her needs are they find that mom has more needs then they are able to handel or it is because she had behaviors and they can't risk the other residents maybe getting hurt. She has had 1 behavior since she has been at this facility when she first got there, so i need to find out what behaviors they are talking about and what this place is telling them. I am sure they have to look at everything from the very begining but surley they can see that the meds have help with the behaviors.

gja1000: We had an MRI done and it did not show any signs of a stroke, we were begining to see small signs of maybe damentia before the surgery but thought what we were seeing was due to the pain she was in from her back.
What are your thoughts of her seeing a nuroligist (sp)?
I am working with a social worker from the place she is at now, not sure if are helping or hindering the situation. Like i said above i know they have to give all the info that they have but as of tonight they say she has had no behaviors.
We do have an agency on ageing so if i dont find anything out tomorrow i might givr them a call and see if they can help me.
Thanks again for everything