I'm a little nervous....

[judy]

I took your advice Diana. As soon as I got to Jessie's, I told Steve I was sorry about not coming over. He said not to worry about it - it's over. I said, no - we should have discussed it and maybe cut out some of their chores (which is what they did anyway) so that I could have come over after my appointment because I knew he didn't want to take the children in the car. He didn't say much, but I put it out there. Jessie told me I didn't have to do that because, as far as he was concerned, it was over and done.

I'm glad I did though because I want him to know that I care about his feelings.
I also wanted him to know that we should discuss these things and maybe compromise.