If you could go back, would you marry your husband again?

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

Don't we all wish we could go back and do this!!!!! hehehehe

Hunny i'm with you 100% on that one!!! I would marry him again but i would have waited until we were more financially stable...he gets bored with his job so easy it was like he would have new one every three months but i am proud of him for staying in the national guard-he has been in since he got out of the navy-he just signed up for another six years for the insurance and other benefits plus he said he's only got a few more years till he can retire and get his army pension. But he has been working offshore for the past year-with the exception of when he got sent to n.o. for hurrican katrina-he was down there for a long time. i wish he would have started working offshore when we first got married- alot of our major arguements were about finances. We get along fine as long as I am not stressing over money all the time. But i love him with all my heart and soul. One time we were in a horrendous fight and i told him i was leaving him and he broke down and cried and told me that he couldn't imagine life without me and the girls. Somedays it's a hard row to hoe but when he holds me in his arms i have never felt more safe and secure and loved. My mom has been married and divorced three times and I always told myself that I never wanted to get married because I couldn't handle losing someone i loved like she has. I really believe that he is the only man for me. Plus he told me we were both too damn stubborn to ever get a divorce-that we would stay together just for spite!!!