I'm soooo frustrated!!!

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by Shada

Ya know.. this brings to mind myself buying my first house when I was single. I was at one local bank in town. Got a application for a loan. Was treated like a child. Really upset me. So I took that application. Filled it out at home. Made an appointment at another local bank. Took that same application. Explained what happened at other bank. Told them if they elected to show me same treatment, I would not waste their time, or them mine.

Well, I got that loan. They cut off the letterhead of the other bank and I was able to use original application!

It is BS that we are treated differently from men in so many settings.
We have to stand strong and say 'nope' this is how it is..

Shana, the same thing happened to me!! I was a single young woman, God they want my life story before i got my loan. Pissed me off, they would have never did that to a man... How many years was i working at my job, how long i have my savings accounts, iras, etc... I had to show them everything! All the money i had in my bank accounts. I really don't think that was none of there business, i was employed and i was at my job for a good 6 years, hell i been working since i was 13 years old... i told the lady... i always had a job always..