Sigh........

[Janet]

And a glimmer of hope is better than none! I will keep her in my nightly prayers that this is a true pregnancy and that the little one is growing stronger and stronger.

[DianaB]

Thank you, Janet!! I'm much more hopeful than I was last week!!

[JJJ]

I'm glad theirs hope that's always good. Positive thoughts and energy going to all of you.

[Janet]

What day this week does Jaci go back to the Dr.?

[DianaB]

She goes back on Wednesday again. This time they'll do a blood test so we'll know a little more. Emotionally I think that she's doing better.....but I can see that she's preparing herself for disappointment that way if everything is not alright it won't be so hard because she's already prepared herself. I can understand her doing that and it hurts to see. I know that things are going to work out whether with this pregnancy or the next.

[Janet]

I'm keeping her in my prayers Diana.

[DianaB]

I got a text from Jaci and she has to have a D & C on Monday. I haven't talked to her because I figured that she probably needs some time to let it soak in. Poor girl. I know that she's tried to convince herself that the pregnancy wasn't good but to actually know for sure is hard. I've been there. It's times like this that my Mother's heart breaks.

[Janet]

Oh no....how sad. My heart just breaks for her.

[DianaB]

I got a text from Jaci this morning (they don't have good phone reception but texting can go through well) and the nurse called and her numbers have gone down. There is no baby in the sac so this is a blighted ovum. I know that she's taking it harder than she's letting on. However it's better to go ahead with the D & C and move on. I hope she doesn't have any problems getting pregnant after this. So sad.

[Janet]

There really isn't a reason for her to have trouble is there after the D&C is there? Sure wish I could give her a hug!

[gja1000]

Oh I'm so sorry Diana. I had a miscarriage with ny first pregnancy too. Since I was a nurse when it happened, I could rationalize that there was something wrong with the ovum, so it was OK. Of course I was disappointed though. After I got pregnant again and had Brooke, I was almost grateful for the miscarriage since if I hadn't, I wouldn't have had Brooke!

[lynne b]

Diana, I am so sorry to hear this about your daughter, i hope everything goes well with the D&C and when the time is right she is able to have a succesful pregnancy. Hugs to you and your family!

[DianaB]

Thank you, everyone. Jaci called and wants me to be in the waiting room with Nate during her D & C. I'll probably spend the day with her if she needs me. The doctor said that she can go to work the next day but her boss told her to stay home and take it easy. She works at a hardware store for really nice people!!

Gayle, I think finding out there was a problem from the start has helped her a lot. Having Nate's new nephews around and Tammy baby this fall will be hard on her.....but hopefully she'll get pregnant quickly!! I'm praying for that!!

[Janet]

I don't wish those feelings on anyone Diana. I know too well how I felt when others were having babies and I wasn't. My heat goes out to her. Like you....I hope she gets pregnant soon.

It's nice her boss is so caring and letting her take off another day just to be on the safe side. It will also give her another day to let out more tears.

[DianaB]

Jaci started bleeding yesterday. She sent me a text so I called her back to see how much and it's not much. The doctor said that they would still plan on seeing her Monday morning unless she started bleeding badly. She seems to be doing well.