I'm Ticked

[Ponyup]

We went for a walk & talked last night, I truely believe he is innocent in all this, but I explained how it looked & how it made me feel & he understands. He brought up the fact that her husband & I talk on IM during the day. I explained that that was different because her husband & I have been friends since highschool & usually we just talk to make plans for the weekend. Sometimes he tries to turn it sexual (just because he's a guy) & I nip it in the bud. I guess I just got worried because I've been in relationship before that weren't going good & I met this a guy that was so nice & listened to me & one thing let to another. I'm just afraid they might get into a bad situation. My husband is very naive in the relationship world. He never had a relationship before me & I know he thinks he's just being her friend, which is nice, but if she unhappy in her relationship & then they become close, etc.. As of right now I think we can still be friends with them as a couple. I wouldn't hang out with her husband alone & I made it quite clear he is not to have contact with her that I don't know about. So hopefully this will all go away.

I think the reason I'm jealous is because I used to be a cheater. I've never cheated on my husband & I won't, but i've been there. In a Bad relationship, meet a nice guy that will listen, & it leads to something else. I trust my husband would never come on to her, but I don't know what he'd do if she came onto him. Honestly in my heart I believe he would stop it & leave. I actually just realized that I truely believe that, he knows that would hurt me & he hates to hurt me. I guess I really got upset over nothing.

[Mandy]

You didnt get upset over nothing girl. You know what "can happen" and saw the warning signs, its a good thing you reacted on it, and cleared things up with your hubby. He sounds like a great guy, and i dont blame you for your actions.
Glad you guys sorted this out!

[Chandra Amaya]

I agree with Mandy. Esp. since you have been he's only relationship. He needs your guidance to let him know what "can" happen. I'm glad you had the courage to tell him how you feel. I know it takes alot. WTG girl!!!