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| No, I have never cheated on my significant other |
   
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29 | 78.38% |
| Yes, but it was before we got married, and hubby never found out |
  
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2 | 5.41% |
| Yes, it was before we got married, and hubby found out but we stayed together |
  
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0 | 0% |
| Yes, it was before we got married, hubby found out and he divorced me |
  
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0 | 0% |
| Yes, it was after we were married, hubby found out and we divorced |
  
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0 | 0% |
| Yes, it was after we were married, hubby found out, and we stayed together |
  
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0 | 0% |
| Yes, it was after we were married and hubby never found out |
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1 | 2.70% |
| I am currently cheating on my hubby and he doesn't know |
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1 | 2.70% |
| Other -- please explain |
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4 | 10.81% |
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11-28-2006, 12:50 PM
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Have you ever cheated on your husband?
Just curious to know if you have ever cheated on your husband or significant other? If so, what happened? Did you divorce? Did you stay together and work it out?
This is a PRIVATE poll. So, no one will know who voted for what in case your cheating is a "dirty little secret." 
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11-28-2006, 03:06 PM
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I had to pick other AGAIN!!!! Without going into alot of detail at this moment, yes, I've cheated, but so did he (each one time). Wasn't the smartest thing we ever did, but it happened. That is not why our marriage isn't the greatest..at least I don't think so. I never think about his cheating so it's not something I hold against him. Like I said in an earlier post, he just hasn't grown like I have, he is not very good at conversation, he has no ambition. If it wasn't for me pushing to get things done...he would just tinker in the garage all the time. Like I said....wish I could start over!
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11-28-2006, 03:11 PM
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I've never cheated on my husband.
My Dad cheated on my Mom and I told my husband I would NEVER have a husband like that. I would never put someone through what my Mom went through with my Dad. I have a good marriage. I would never want to lose the relationship that I have.
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11-28-2006, 08:01 PM
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Never cheated and never would. I also would never stay with him if he cheated. ( I am to good for that)
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11-29-2006, 07:59 AM
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I had to vote other because I guess it's what you define as cheating. I kissed another guy before we got married, not make-out just a kiss. I personally don't think a kiss is cheating, but kisses can mean more & lead to other things so I try to stear clear of doing it now. I was drunk & my hubby & I were long distance & he hates to kiss anyway. I'm a kisser, I love to kiss & just kiss like when you were in jr. high/high school & would kiss for days (my high school boyfriend was the best kisser). Anyway, it was a one time thing & it hasn't happened since. I never told him & I never will. I never saw the guy again either.
I guess that's the one thing I really don't like about my relationship is that he's not a kisser. But the reason I liked him was because he seemed to be into me for reasons other than physical, like all the other boys, & I liked that. I guess you can't have it both ways, but sometimes I wish you could. Like I wanna say it's great that you love me for my mind, but now I want you to love me for my body. But he's my best buddy & I wouldn't trade him for anything. |
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11-29-2006, 09:56 AM
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I picked other. My husband cheated on me twice since we have been married and once before we were married. I always said I would never cheat, but lately I have been contemplating it. I worry, I will not be able to live with myself afterwards.
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12-01-2006, 03:55 PM
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The first time was the hardest. That's when I had to deal with my conscience. It got easier every time after that. A word of advice, when I caught him, the other woman DID NOT come out on top! You will be putting yourself in an extremely dangerous situation. Believe me, I tried to shoot my ex, but I was so pissed that I was trembling and missed. If I had been able to keep my cool, he'd be dead and I'd be in jail. If you're not happy, get out of the marriage - then do whatever you want. |
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04-09-2008, 01:04 PM
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have never cheated in a relationship or the one marriage. a little tempatation here and there, but somehow there has been a mental "stop" and i can't do it. even in a bad marriage.
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04-11-2008, 07:38 PM
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I have not and would never cheat on my husband. I don't think he could ever do it either. But, if he did, his butt would be at the curb!
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04-16-2008, 06:55 AM
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I have to say other. I never cheated on my first husband, but he certainly cheated on me. I had my daughter and the marriage ended. He got nothing and I got my daughter. Talk about revenge!
My second husband - I did kiss one guy I worked with, but I ended it there. He was also married and a player. I also got a phone call from an old boyfriend, and to be honest, I would have cheated on hubby #2 in a heartbeat! My friends and I had cover stories ready and all. He never called back - probably because my second husband answered the phone. I've long since divorced hubby #2 also.
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