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Old 11-29-2006, 09:46 AM   #1
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Kissing

Ok Girls! I decided to start this forum, since I was reading about it in the affair thread. Someone mentioned that they like to kiss , and that their husband doesnt.


I am also a kisser, back in the day my hubby was a kisser to, but he hardly kisses me unless its prelude to sex and even then its nothing excting .lol ...What is your view on kissing? Do you still kiss or has it become obsolete in your relationship? I like to know if its normal to deminish in a relationship of x amount of years? What's the deal??
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Old 11-29-2006, 10:23 AM   #2
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I don't think I can accurately answer. My husband was never a kisser. We never kissed a lot even during intamint times. I've tried to give him confidence & such, but he just isn't into it. Most of the time I have to ask for it. Oh well. No body is perfect.
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Old 11-29-2006, 10:25 AM   #3
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I don't think it's normal NOT to kiss, but we don't kiss either, among other things. I think those that are still passionate (although not 100% of the time) still enjoy that kind of closeness. Maybe it's something that the couple should discuss.
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Old 11-29-2006, 01:13 PM   #4
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Ok Girls! I decided to start this forum, since I was reading about it in the affair thread. Someone mentioned that they like to kiss , and that their husband doesnt.


I am also a kisser, back in the day my hubby was a kisser to, but he hardly kisses me unless its prelude to sex and even then its nothing excting .lol ...What is your view on kissing? Do you still kiss or has it become obsolete in your relationship? I like to know if its normal to deminish in a relationship of x amount of years? What's the deal??
Do you mean kissing hubby hello and gbye? We do the hi and bye kiss, but i'm not a hang on my lips kinda girl. Never have been.
I can kiss and cuddle my yorkies all day long though
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Old 11-29-2006, 02:43 PM   #5
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Do you mean kissing hubby hello and gbye? We do the hi and bye kiss, but i'm not a hang on my lips kinda girl. Never have been.
I can kiss and cuddle my yorkies all day long though
lmao nooooooooooo I didn't mean kissing hubby hello and gbye...I meant hanging on the lips...lol I kiss and cuddle my yorkie all day tooo...lol
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Old 11-29-2006, 02:47 PM   #6
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I always kiss my Yorkies too, but that is about it. The hanging on kiss....not really into kissing that much. Now if he was a rich old man about to die and giving me all his possessions...yes, I'd kiss, I'd even kiss his dead butt....LOL
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Old 11-29-2006, 03:02 PM   #7
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I always kiss my Yorkies too, but that is about it. The hanging on kiss....not really into kissing that much. Now if he was a rich old man about to die and giving me all his possessions...yes, I'd kiss, I'd even kiss his dead butt....LOL


Now Janet kissing the old mans butt..mmm lets see.. ewwwww that depends on how much money and possessions he has..Hell I will even give the old man a thrill once in awhile if he is loaded... lmaooooooooo
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Old 11-29-2006, 05:13 PM   #8
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Kissing and hugging are very important to me...I dated a guy once (many, many years ago when I was a teen) that was an extremely good looking Italian man...great body, great personality, great dresser...everything a girl could want and more..however......kissing him was like kissing a wall!!! I mean...no movement of the head, lips NOTHING! we didn't last very long...

Eric (hubby) is a great kisser and hugger...and when he "get's into a kiss" it is wonderful..and doesn't necessarily lead to something else...and in that department he's good too!
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My hubby was never an exciting kisser, but he used to be ok.
Over time he's slid downhill in this area to the point where I rarely want to get kissed by him. I end up feeling like he's going to swallow my face or drown me. ICK

I'd rather just get a hug and shake hands.
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Old 11-30-2006, 08:02 PM   #10
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Kiss?? Whats that! We kiss hi and bye and sometimes MAYBE some during the week. Even then it isn't the hanging on kind.
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Old 12-01-2006, 03:13 AM   #11
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We still hangon kiss not as often but never tongues would throw up my fault not hubbies.
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Old 12-01-2006, 06:21 AM   #12
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My hubby was never an exciting kisser, but he used to be ok.
Over time he's slid downhill in this area to the point where I rarely want to get kissed by him. I end up feeling like he's going to swallow my face or drown me. ICK

I'd rather just get a hug and shake hands.

So funny, my husbands hands always look so dirty (from body work on cars) that I don't even care to shake hands....a quick wave would suffice!!


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but never tongues would throw up

My husband always used tongue, but now I'd puke too. He smells like cigarettes and beer. I'm gagging now!!!!
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Old 12-01-2006, 06:39 AM   #13
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We do the hi/bye kiss...we make out on occassion.....and when we are getting our funk on...he kisses my neck LOLOL
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Old 12-15-2006, 07:06 PM   #14
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I am a kissing person but for some reason I don't like to kiss my bf that much.
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