It Has Been Good To Get Back To 4wt

judy · 10-07-2007, 09:02 AM

I've been off more than on lately, and I have to say - it's so good to visit with you all.
This is a wonderful place, and you are dear, dear friends.

I see a therapist once a month since this business with my daughter got really bad. I told him about 4WT and he could not get over what a wonderful idea this is. I would never get to meet most of you since we live so far from each other, but caring so much about each other across the miles is such a gift.

Lots of love and prayers to all of you,

Judy

Mandy · 10-07-2007, 11:21 AM

Judy, it's great to have you back, and wonderful to have you as a friend, and i really mean that. It is wonderful to have friends on here, even though we are virtual, we are for real, and you can always count on us. Nice thing about this place is, no one ever frowns upon anyone, theres no judgement, and we can be who/what we are, and say whats on our minds.

I really, and truly care for all my friends here.

Lots of love & hugs to you, Judy.

AngieDoogles · 10-08-2007, 11:41 AM

Judy, I'm so glad you are back! I've missed you the past week or so. I hope things are going well for you. Remember, no matter how long you are away, we're still here whenever you are ready to come back and chat.

*hugs*

judy · 10-08-2007, 05:10 PM

Gina · 10-08-2007, 06:54 PM

Hi Judy,

I am happy to see you back, and glad that you are seeing a therapist. I hope that you will find some peace with what is going on in your life.. Yes this place is a wonderful place to come to and vent their problems and happiness all the ladies are wonderful and if we could meet I know that we would all be friends. Judy one day in the near future I will meet you for coffee when I come to Bklyn, promise

In the meantime stay strong...

Love to you Judy and all my other 4wt friends!

judy · 10-09-2007, 08:44 AM

I love my therapist. He always agrees with whatever I say!
Where are you going to get that?

He was also my marriage counselor. He listened to me and then to my ex at our first session. He sat there for a minute, and then pointed at Joel, and said to him, "You. You're the problem. She's not doing anything wrong."

It doesn't get much better than that moment.

DianaB · 10-09-2007, 09:16 AM

Judy, I'm glad to hear that you're getting some counseling for the problems with your daughter. You know that you're special to us and we're here for you anytime you need us. We have a great group of women and we have a special bond between all of us even though we've never met in person. I know that my family and my friends don't understand that I can have close friends that I've never met. My conversation is filled with things that are said on here or something about what someone is going through. That's cool that your therapist thinks that what we have is great. I think that I like him too!!!!

AngieDoogles · 10-11-2007, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by judy

I love my therapist. He always agrees with whatever I say!
Where are you going to get that?

He was also my marriage counselor. He listened to me and then to my ex at our first session. He sat there for a minute, and then pointed at Joel, and said to him, "You. You're the problem. She's not doing anything wrong."

It doesn't get much better than that moment.

Oh my! That's an interesting approach for a marriage counselor to take. I bet your ex was just floored! lol

judy · 10-11-2007, 01:51 PM

It was a once in a lifetime moment I will cherish all of my life!

Marilyn · 10-13-2007, 03:46 PM

Judy, it is great that you are back!!! I've been AWOL a lot lately, too, but I'm really trying to get on here more. I do miss all of you. Your therapist is right, we do have a great thing going here. So glad you are getting some positive help. We are here anytime you need some encouragement.

I won't be getting to NYC this year, but maybe next year in the fall. If so, we have to try to meet.

Love you!!!

judy · 10-13-2007, 04:30 PM

Marilyn,

We'll have a ball!

Janet · 10-18-2007, 06:50 AM

Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one.

I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all.

AngieDoogles · 10-18-2007, 02:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janet

Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one.

I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all.

We need you too Janet! Just never stay away for too long, we might have Janet-withdrawals! lol

DianaB · 10-19-2007, 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AngieDoogles

....... we might have Janet-withdrawals! lol

What do you mean.... we MIGHT have Janet withdrawals? We HAVE been having Janet withdrawals!!!!!!!!

katepoet · 10-19-2007, 11:48 AM

I had a counselor tell me something like that in college - "It's not you, you're fine! It's the people who are making you feel bad who are not OK." It really helped me to get more picky over my choices in friends.

10-07-2007, 09:02 AM	#1
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	It Has Been Good To Get Back To 4wt I've been off more than on lately, and I have to say - it's so good to visit with you all. This is a wonderful place, and you are dear, dear friends. I see a therapist once a month since this business with my daughter got really bad. I told him about 4WT and he could not get over what a wonderful idea this is. I would never get to meet most of you since we live so far from each other, but caring so much about each other across the miles is such a gift. Lots of love and prayers to all of you, Judy __________________ *Judy*

10-07-2007, 11:21 AM	#2
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Judy, it's great to have you back, and wonderful to have you as a friend, and i really mean that. It is wonderful to have friends on here, even though we are virtual, we are for real, and you can always count on us. Nice thing about this place is, no one ever frowns upon anyone, theres no judgement, and we can be who/what we are, and say whats on our minds. I really, and truly care for all my friends here. Lots of love & hugs to you, Judy. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

10-08-2007, 11:41 AM	#3
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	Judy, I'm so glad you are back! I've missed you the past week or so. I hope things are going well for you. Remember, no matter how long you are away, we're still here whenever you are ready to come back and chat. hugs __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

10-08-2007, 05:10 PM	#4
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	__________________ *Judy*

10-09-2007, 08:44 AM	#6
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	I *love* my therapist. He always agrees with whatever I say! Where are you going to get that? He was also my marriage counselor. He listened to me and then to my ex at our first session. He sat there for a minute, and then pointed at Joel, and said to him, "You. You're the problem. She's not doing anything wrong." It doesn't get much better than that moment. __________________ *Judy*

10-08-2007, 06:54 PM	#5
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Hi Judy, I am happy to see you back, and glad that you are seeing a therapist. I hope that you will find some peace with what is going on in your life.. Yes this place is a wonderful place to come to and vent their problems and happiness all the ladies are wonderful and if we could meet I know that we would all be friends. Judy one day in the near future I will meet you for coffee when I come to Bklyn, promise In the meantime stay strong... Love to you Judy and all my other 4wt friends!

10-09-2007, 09:16 AM	#7
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Judy, I'm glad to hear that you're getting some counseling for the problems with your daughter. You know that you're special to us and we're here for you anytime you need us. We have a great group of women and we have a special bond between all of us even though we've never met in person. I know that my family and my friends don't understand that I can have close friends that I've never met. My conversation is filled with things that are said on here or something about what someone is going through. That's cool that your therapist thinks that what we have is great. I think that I like him too!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-11-2007, 01:51 PM	#9
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	It was a once in a lifetime moment I will cherish all of my life! __________________ *Judy*

10-13-2007, 03:46 PM	#10
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Judy, it is great that you are back!!! I've been AWOL a lot lately, too, but I'm really trying to get on here more. I do miss all of you. Your therapist is right, we do have a great thing going here. So glad you are getting some positive help. We are here anytime you need some encouragement. I won't be getting to NYC this year, but maybe next year in the fall. If so, we have to try to meet. Love you!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-13-2007, 04:30 PM	#11
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Marilyn, We'll have a ball! __________________ *Judy*

10-18-2007, 06:50 AM	#12
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one. I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-19-2007, 11:48 AM	#15
katepoet Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 992	I had a counselor tell me something like that in college - "It's not you, you're fine! It's the people who are making you feel bad who are not OK." It really helped me to get more picky over my choices in friends.

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