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Old 09-19-2006, 01:00 PM   #1
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Masterbation?

This thread is so I can say I did my part today & started a thread.

I don't know how to insert a poll or I would. Do you or don't you? If you do did it take you a while to get comfortable or did you just go for it?

I've never done & it personally makes me a little shy to even think about actually doing it. At the last toy party I went to I bought a little waterproof buddy that's still sitting in his package in the drawer, I just can't bring myself to do it.

What a thread huh?
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Old 09-19-2006, 01:24 PM   #2
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There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind.
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Old 09-19-2006, 01:28 PM   #3
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There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind.
My husband plays ball on thurs. night maybe this thurs. I won't go & see if I can't work something out.
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Old 09-19-2006, 01:31 PM   #4
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There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind.

I agree!! I can imagine the "shyness" playing a role, but there's no one to watch you. It's only a good thing if you know your body, that way it's a lot easier to let your partner know your wants and needs
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LMAO - After this thread gets going, there is going to be an awful lot of ladies from 4wt taking hot baths tonight.
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I wanna add, it's GREAT with candle light and don't forget a glass of champagne LOL
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Old 09-19-2006, 02:04 PM   #7
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....and don't forget the pretty smelling candles!!!! LOL!
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I do it I love it I recomend it LOL
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Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol
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Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol

For sure!!!!!!!!
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OMG!!! HERE WE GO AGAIN LORD.....

I've got to get out of this thread...help me, help me!!!!

I can't get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Where's my darn back key....
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LMAO - After this thread gets going, there is going to be an awful lot of ladies from 4wt taking hot baths tonight.

Hey!!!! Where is everybody??????
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Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol

Ohhhhhh Lordy! Lordy! Any one have a good recipe???
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I was always pretty bashful about this myself. (I was raised Catholic with all the guilt that comes along with it). It took my husband to coach me in this and he actually encourages me to do this for myself (of course he gets to peek ). Because of him, I bought a "toy". He is really open to all sorts of experiences and has taught me alot. I think it is important that you learn what feels good to you so that you can convey this to your partner.
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OMG!!! HERE WE GO AGAIN LORD.....

I've got to get out of this thread...help me, help me!!!!

I can't get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Where's my darn back key....
lol Janet!!!
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