When do boys develop the common sense gene?

Dobie · 03-05-2008, 05:09 PM

I nanny for a family a few days a week that has 4 kids. The older boys are 7 and 8, Domenic is 18 months, and the little girl is 12 weeks (she was born 10 weeks early and still needs a lot of care)

So I go over there yesterday, and send the 2 older boys in the back yard to play after school. I tell them I'll call them in after I feed the baby and give Domenic his bath, I tell them we'll make brownies. Now, any other day, they will come in 30 times in 30 mintues either tattling on each other or asking for a drink. So, I KNOW they know how to use the back door.

I feed the baby then check on them, eveything's fine. Run the tub and check on them, everything's fine. I put Dom in the tub and let him play for about 20 minutes - I can't leave Dom alone, so obviously I can't check on the older boys, but it's a fenced in yard and I KNOW they know how to use the backdoor and come inside if there's a problem.

I finish Dom's bath and get him dressed - we walk into the living room and I glance out the front window. IT's POURING OUTSIDE!! With the bathwater running, I hadn't heard it in the bathroom. I go to the backdoor and see the 2 boys standing in the middle of the yard, shivering, soaked to the bone and just stareing at the door. They had their little hoods up and water was dripping into their faces. I don't know the words to use to describe how pathetic they looked. So I said - "Come inside, it's raining, why are you just standing there looking at the door". They BOTH burst into tears and start yelling "YOU DIDN"T CALL US IN". So basically, they know how to use the door to come inside to tattle, ask for something to eat or drink, use the bathroom, ask if we can go to the park, or a million other things that they want to do - but if it's pouring out, they NEED me to tell them to come inside.
AT what point do boys develop that common sense gene?

03-05-2008, 05:17 PM

all I can say is NEVER. As you know, E is 28 years old he hasnt developed it yeT!

Janet · 03-05-2008, 06:24 PM

Sorry Dobie....aint ever gonna happen!

pope1982 · 03-05-2008, 06:36 PM

Thanks for the laugh!

yorkiemalt · 03-05-2008, 07:58 PM

mean old babysitter!

Tink · 03-05-2008, 08:49 PM

Consider the gender and the men you know...

DianaB · 03-06-2008, 10:59 AM

It never happens!!!!! Over time the only thing that changes is the price of the toys!!!!!

Janet · 03-06-2008, 11:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DianaB

It never happens!!!!! Over time the only thing that changes is the price of the toys!!!!!

Nothing could be more true than that Diana!!! You are a wise woman my friend!

goofywife · 03-06-2008, 01:41 PM

After a day like today, Never.

DianaB · 03-06-2008, 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by goofywife

After a day like today, Never.

Ok, you know after a post like that you gotta' tell.........

Chandra Amaya · 03-07-2008, 09:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DianaB

It never happens!!!!! Over time the only thing that changes is the price of the toys!!!!!

Soooo true!!!!!

Janet · 03-07-2008, 09:48 AM

Come on Michelle, we need an explanation...LOL

03-05-2008, 05:09 PM	#1
Dobie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,075	When do boys develop the common sense gene? I nanny for a family a few days a week that has 4 kids. The older boys are 7 and 8, Domenic is 18 months, and the little girl is 12 weeks (she was born 10 weeks early and still needs a lot of care) So I go over there yesterday, and send the 2 older boys in the back yard to play after school. I tell them I'll call them in after I feed the baby and give Domenic his bath, I tell them we'll make brownies. Now, any other day, they will come in 30 times in 30 mintues either tattling on each other or asking for a drink. So, I KNOW they know how to use the back door. I feed the baby then check on them, eveything's fine. Run the tub and check on them, everything's fine. I put Dom in the tub and let him play for about 20 minutes - I can't leave Dom alone, so obviously I can't check on the older boys, but it's a fenced in yard and I KNOW they know how to use the backdoor and come inside if there's a problem. I finish Dom's bath and get him dressed - we walk into the living room and I glance out the front window. IT's POURING OUTSIDE!! With the bathwater running, I hadn't heard it in the bathroom. I go to the backdoor and see the 2 boys standing in the middle of the yard, shivering, soaked to the bone and just stareing at the door. They had their little hoods up and water was dripping into their faces. I don't know the words to use to describe how pathetic they looked. So I said - "Come inside, it's raining, why are you just standing there looking at the door". They BOTH burst into tears and start yelling "YOU DIDN"T CALL US IN". So basically, they know how to use the door to come inside to tattle, ask for something to eat or drink, use the bathroom, ask if we can go to the park, or a million other things that they want to do - but if it's pouring out, they NEED me to tell them to come inside. AT what point do boys develop that common sense gene?

03-05-2008, 06:24 PM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Sorry Dobie....aint ever gonna happen! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-05-2008, 08:49 PM	#6
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Consider the gender and the men you know... __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

03-06-2008, 10:59 AM	#7
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	It never happens!!!!! Over time the only thing that changes is the price of the toys!!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

03-06-2008, 01:41 PM	#9
goofywife Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 855	After a day like today, Never. __________________ Michelle (Katys mom) OK Yorkie Rescue-Another Chance at Love

03-05-2008, 05:17 PM	#2
CoyoteQueen Guest Posts: n/a	all I can say is NEVER. As you know, E is 28 years old he hasnt developed it yeT!

03-05-2008, 06:36 PM	#4
pope1982 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Baltimore Posts: 673	Thanks for the laugh!

03-05-2008, 07:58 PM	#5
yorkiemalt Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Jersey Posts: 193	mean old babysitter!

03-07-2008, 09:48 AM	#12
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Come on Michelle, we need an explanation...LOL __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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