What would you do?

[DianaB]

Nope, things are worse. I finally mentioned that my brother is not welcome at our home.......then he got really, really sick. I did go down for his surgery because of Mom. I meant to call or send a card but never got around to it. I did keep in touch with Mom on how he was doing........now she's hardly speaking to me. It doesn't help that it was in the newspaper that he was arrested for "domestic abuse" and I know that Mom probably bailed him out. Oh, and I found out that he married that woman that is addicted to prescription drugs and doesn't get along with.

Mom has mentioned how much healthier he is after spending weeks in the hospital........that's because he couldn't do meth in there! But now that he's out I hear that he's doing it again. I just wish that my Mom would see that there is a problem because she is his enabler. He will never get help as long as she keeps doling money out to him and when Mom is gone he better learn to stand on his own two feet because money won't be coming from me!