Crappy Mood :(

[Taurus Babe]

I've been getting in little tiff with my bf so much recently! Usually it's me, just getting upset about little things which normally wouldn't bother me (which I'm working on) and I just got off the phone with my bf in a huff cause he got mad that I did something to his fish tank (trying to be helpful) without asking first. I hate fighting, and there's been so much crappy moodiness between us recently. I'm so frustrated!! I don't even know why thing have been so un-cheery so much.

[Janet]

It must be something in the air. I swear if i have one more bad day I'll freak'n explode. The only advice I have is to talk with him and get things out in the open. Maybe that will help?

In my case...nothing will.

[Taurus Babe]

So he came home from work this morning, and went to the couch to take a nap! I came out of our room in a great mood, trying to not make a big deal of last night, and he's all pissed. I asked him why he was sleeping on the couch and he said cause he's mad at me!!! Why? For doing things around the house without talking to him first! Even though I've been talking about how I was going to rearrange the furniture for weeks now!

[Taurus Babe]

Originally Posted by Janet

It must be something in the air. I swear if i have one more bad day I'll freak'n explode. The only advice I have is to talk with him and get things out in the open. Maybe that will help?

In my case...nothing will.

THanks Janet,
I tried to talk to him this morning. Maybe when he wakes up (on the right side of the bed) he'll be more able to think about who's the meany. Okay, and I will put myself in his shoes too. I'm so sick of our relationship not running smoothly. It's such a challenge to through a huge move across country into a relationship...

[Gina]

Sorry to hear that your fighting over not important things in life. But regardless!! Men are babies.. All I can offer is to speak to him, tell him to get it out already, life is to short to fight and be mad...

Tell him to put himself in your shoes, you left your home and are doing your best to adjust.. Good luck!

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Taurus Babe

So he came home from work this morning, and went to the couch to take a nap! I came out of our room in a great mood, trying to not make a big deal of last night, and he's all pissed. I asked him why he was sleeping on the couch and he said cause he's mad at me!!! Why? For doing things around the house without talking to him first! Even though I've been talking about how I was going to rearrange the furniture for weeks now!

Did I read that right? You have to discuss how to rearrange the furniture? I will tell you this, if my husband said anything to me about the arrangement of furniture , I'd arrange his butt real fast. If he wants to keep everything clean and organized then fine, but if I'm doing it...he'd better keep his mouth shut.

Can't you tell my mood isn't much better today and that my marriage really does suck???...LOL. I'll try to do better honest!

[teri88]

awwwww we all get in a funk sometime. Try to do something for yourself. Even if it's just go for a walk or a great cup of tea. Hope everyone is feeling better.

[AngieDoogles]

I'm sorry you are feeling down. Have you tried going on a date night to get some of that nice romantic feel back to the relationship? Maybe that would put you both in a better mood! I hope you feel better soon.

[judy]

I hope things get better soon. It sounds like you both need to talk things out. Maybe over a romantic dinner, like Angie said.

Good luck!