I agree with some of the girls above enjoy the time you have alone for there are few and far in between. When you are married many years you want them to go get lost for awhile.. lol I had a wonderful MIL who passed away over a year ago, now my FIL was a different story very demanding and critical. I learned to ignore him over the years and did what I wanted to do anyway. My FIL mellowed after my MIL passing. I lost both my parents and I do miss the times with them, as I think back, as you get older you realize that your spouse left his parents to marry, and now I have a son and someday I will be a MIL and I hope to be a nice one, providing that his wife respects me. It is a give and take, remember he loves his mom just as much as we women love ours. I have a daughter to, so that rule will apply to her future MIL...lol
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