Self Gratification

[Ponyup]

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Kimberley

My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?

Why would they rather have sex with themselves then you? LOL, that's my question. If it's just masturbation than I find nothing wrong with that, go at it! I don't feel this is cheating in the least. But if "they'd rather please them self than have you do it", ugh...Id wanna know why?

[Carolyn]

I don't consider it cheating but I can't even imagine walking in on THAT! I don't know whether I would get mad or laugh hysterically.

Originally Posted by Ponyup

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

i used to be like that but when my hubby got sent to iraq i needed something to work the knots out and sitting on the washing machine wasn't cutting it!!! so one day me and my best friend went to the "toy" store as i call it and we picked up some stuff that worked for me...plus if you are self-conscious about actually touching yourself that is what these things are for. my fav....it's kinda expensive but it's da BOMB is the jackrabbit-get the waterproof so you can take a bubble bath and take care of yourself too!!! i thought my hubby would be all jealous but it actually turned him on and sometimes we use toys when we are making love,,,,,there is nothing wrong with trying new things!!! so be sure to buy a lot of batteries!!!good luck and hope this helps

[Sherry Lynn]

Originally Posted by Carolyn

I don't consider it cheating but I can't even imagine walking in on THAT! I don't know whether I would get mad or laugh hysterically.

Haha! I'm with ya' there girl!

But lets face it.... if they didn't do it they would self-combust!