May lose job!!!

[Janet]

I can almost hear the growling of supportive women here at my house, I think she should be afraid!!! LOL

[RLC12345678]

Have you gotten the email yet?! You know we're ALL going to want to know what it says!

[Janet]

No, not yet and the waiting is killing me. She is a very busy woman and said she needed to make the announcements first. I just wish it would hurry and come through. I am shaking sooooo bad.

She did say it was very lengthy and she wouldn't have time to read the whole thing over the phone, that's why she wanted my email address. I sincerely hope she doesn't edit anything, I would rather read the whole thing.

[Necee419]

Here's a thought that just came to me. Would you still have to go through all the channels if you thought the girl's safety was being compromised by this boy? I mean a warning is not enough if you feel the kid is a danger to the girl. Is this something you can use in your defense should you have to justify your actions to the school board?

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Necee419

Here's a thought that just came to me. Would you still have to go through all the channels if you thought the girl's safety was being compromised by this boy? I mean a warning is not enough if you feel the kid is a danger to the girl. Is this something you can use in your defense should you have to justify your actions to the school board?

I really don't think he is a violent kid. Just mouthy and foul-mouthed at that!

[magnolia]

Originally Posted by Janet

I can almost hear the growling of supportive women here at my house, I think she should be afraid!!! LOL

Be afraid.......be VERY afraid!!! As the saying goes, hell hath no furry than a woman scorned - and she's scorned you! And in doing so, she has affected us all - we've become such a supportive group in the short time this site has been up if one of us is hurting, we are ALL hurting (and the same if we are happy). Add me to those making the road trip - I'll get my sign painted this evening

I'm sure it'll be okay.... IMO you did the right thing when you handled the boy the way you did. And as far as the phone call.... Don't worry about. She called you at home, which isn't right to begin with, but then proceeded to provoke you AND your husband! She acted inappropriately and if she hadn't, the whole B**** phone thing wouldn't have happened. Her own darn fault if you ask me!

[Janet]

I rec'd the email and boy was it a long one!! When I printed it out, it was almost two pages of typing. She really raked me over the coals, but most of it was from stuff she said her boys said.

I replied to the email with my comments highlighted in red and sent it back to the Assist. Principal. She made some pretty bad accusations and they were not true. I hope in this case that what goes around comes around.

I'll let the Lord handle it from here!

I'm still shaking and now hurt, the non-truths really hurt my feelings. I pray that they know what kind of vindictive person she is and does not take her seriously. They should know me by now.

[Necee419]

Believe me, all that trash talking she did is going to blow up in her face!! No one is going to take her seriously, especially if she made some outlandish accusations. She would have helped her case more if she would have kept things clean. I think everyone will see through her words, and I truly believe your reputation speaks volumes more than her two page two-bit email. Keep your head up, it's going to be ok.

[Janet]

I would copy and paste it here, but it's so long, I don't think Admin. would appreciate it.

[Kimberley]

Janet! She IS a b***h!!!! I have to deal with psycho parents, too...including one that WAS a friend. As long as your administrators know about what happened, you should be okay. AFter all, it occurred AFTER school. Don't sweat her. She's got issues and needs to stop being in such denial!!!!!

[Sherry Lynn]

Originally Posted by Janet

I replied to the email with my comments highlighted in red and sent it back to the Assist. Principal. She made some pretty bad accusations and they were not true. I hope in this case that what goes around comes around.

I'll let the Lord handle it from here!

I'm still shaking and now hurt, the non-truths really hurt my feelings. I pray that they know what kind of vindictive person she is and does not take her seriously. They should know me by now.

You can rest assured it will come back to bite her in the butt!! People that have to make up lies like that are truly to be pitied, and it sounds like this isn't the first time so I'm sure no one else is taking it as seriously as you are. You know in your heart you did what's right. Try not to let it upset you so. The beyotch doesn't deserve your energy!

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Sherry Lynn

You can rest assured it will come back to bite her in the butt!! People that have to make up lies like that are truly to be pitied, and it sounds like this isn't the first time so I'm sure no one else is taking it as seriously as you are. You know in your heart you did what's right. Try not to let it upset you so. The beyotch doesn't deserve your energy!

I couldn't have said it better myself!!!! Janet, I would just kill this lady with kindess from now on. She is probably the kind that LOVES drama. Being nice to her will get back at her more than anything.

[Mandy]

That woman sounds like a trashy drama queen

Don't worry Janet, the principal knows you and your work far better than that stupid woman. They know what some parents can be like, they deal with these sort of situations daily.
You did the right thing
Don't let woman like her get to you, she is not worth it!
I'ts obvious she has some serious personal issues to deal with!

[Tink]

{{{Janet}}}
I'm sorry this is happening. I'm glad the assist princ knows you and trusts your word. People can be so doggone difficult sometimes but those who make a habit of it end up with little if any credibility, so I really don't think you need to worry about your job. I'm sorry someone you considered a friend turned out to be such a PITA.
Hang in there... this too shall pass.