Help!!! Dating anxiety - Page 2

DianaB · 10-10-2008, 12:24 PM

Drat!!! I wasn't on yesterday and missed all of this!!!! How exciting for you, Judy!!!! A date!!!! I think that the girls have given you good advice on being careful and not giving out too much information. Maybe we should all come to your house and help you pick out your outfit and help you style your hair!!! LOL It's been forever since I dated so I really don't have any advice for you there except to just take your time. There are all sorts of weirdo's out there but there's also some really nice guys too.

Just take a video camera and sit it up in an out of the way corner and just record the whole date for us then we'll be happy!!!! You know that curiosity is going to kill us!!!! I hope that everything goes really well for you! Hugs!!!!

Janet · 10-10-2008, 12:57 PM

Diana...what a great idea...the video... Oh Judy I can't wait...now when is this date anyway?

Lindsey · 10-10-2008, 01:32 PM

Judy, just take someone else to tape it for you, and tell the guy you're on a new reality show

judy · 10-10-2008, 06:27 PM

Can you imagine pulling out a video camera and explaining that my friends need to watch?

I am meeting him for lunch on Sunday. I always used to take my own car on dates.
That way, no stalkers, and if it's not working out - well, so long honey! I'm wearing jeans. I think they're the most flattering thing for my butt, and I don't even own any nice slacks. I'll wear heels and a pretty, casual top, some jewelry, a little make up, and I guess that's it.

I don't really care if he likes me at first for my looks. That doesn't last long, and, anyway, I'm more interested in whether I like him. They do say, however, that men are hooked by a woman's looks. Women are attracted to a sense of humor,
intelligence, sensitivity, etc.

I'll keep you posted.

Tink · 10-10-2008, 10:07 PM

Good luck Judy, just remember, if he passes YOUR inspection he still has to pass OURS!

We have to make sure he's good enough for you. so if you decide on a second date let us know and we'll get our questionaire together for him to fill out. Oh, and maybe a lie detector test to be sure he's on the Up and up? lol

HUGS and have a great time.

Janet · 10-11-2008, 04:57 PM

My gosh the date is tomorrow!!!! Get a picture of this dude. Tell him you take a picture of ALL your dates so you can remember who is who....LOL.

I hope you like him, hope he's nice, rich, handsome and knows how to treat a beautiful woman. I'm so excited for you!! Do you think he'd notice if you took notes for us???

Marilyn · 10-11-2008, 05:09 PM

Wishing you well, dear friend!!!

highlans · 10-12-2008, 11:47 AM

Hope lunch went well

DianaB · 10-12-2008, 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tink

Good luck Judy, just remember, if he passes YOUR inspection he still has to pass OURS!

We have to make sure he's good enough for you. so if you decide on a second date let us know and we'll get our questionaire together for him to fill out. Oh, and maybe a lie detector test to be sure he's on the Up and up? lol

HUGS and have a great time.

I think that a questionaire is a wonderful idea, Tink!!!

Judy........ we're waiting to hear how things went!!!!!

Gina · 10-12-2008, 04:03 PM

Judy!!! Girlfriend time to check in with us.. We want the scoops??? How did it go?? Come on and tell us already!!!! lol geezeeee

Marilyn · 10-12-2008, 05:06 PM

Okay, it's 9:03 p.m. your time. Are you still on the date??? Sure hope he's nice.

Janet · 10-12-2008, 05:10 PM

Judy....you get back here now and tell us about the date!!!

DianaB · 10-12-2008, 05:16 PM

Judy.....oh, Judy......We're waiting!!!!!!

Tink · 10-12-2008, 06:47 PM

Ohoh, I hope he didn't run off with our Judy!
We should have given her a curfew to report back to us by.
I just know none of us will sleep until we hear from her!

Shada · 10-12-2008, 08:03 PM

Judy!!
Lunch was hours ago! Dinner was hours ago!!!

Where are you?? We are waiting for your report!
Hope all went well and you had a fantastic time.

10-10-2008, 12:24 PM	#16
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Drat!!! I wasn't on yesterday and missed all of this!!!! How exciting for you, Judy!!!! A date!!!! I think that the girls have given you good advice on being careful and not giving out too much information. Maybe we should all come to your house and help you pick out your outfit and help you style your hair!!! LOL It's been forever since I dated so I really don't have any advice for you there except to just take your time. There are all sorts of weirdo's out there but there's also some really nice guys too. Just take a video camera and sit it up in an out of the way corner and just record the whole date for us then we'll be happy!!!! You know that curiosity is going to kill us!!!! I hope that everything goes really well for you! Hugs!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-10-2008, 12:57 PM	#17
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Diana...what a great idea...the video... Oh Judy I can't wait...now when is this date anyway? __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-10-2008, 01:32 PM	#18
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	Judy, just take someone else to tape it for you, and tell the guy you're on a new reality show __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

10-10-2008, 06:27 PM	#19
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Can you imagine pulling out a video camera and explaining that my friends need to watch? I am meeting him for lunch on Sunday. I always used to take my own car on dates. That way, no stalkers, and if it's not working out - well, so long honey! I'm wearing jeans. I think they're the most flattering thing for my butt, and I don't even own any nice slacks. I'll wear heels and a pretty, casual top, some jewelry, a little make up, and I guess that's it. I don't really care if he likes me at first for my looks. That doesn't last long, and, anyway, I'm more interested in whether I like him. They do say, however, that men are hooked by a woman's looks. Women are attracted to a sense of humor, intelligence, sensitivity, etc. I'll keep you posted. __________________ *Judy*

10-10-2008, 10:07 PM	#20
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Good luck Judy, just remember, if he passes YOUR inspection he still has to pass OURS! We have to make sure he's good enough for you. so if you decide on a second date let us know and we'll get our questionaire together for him to fill out. Oh, and maybe a lie detector test to be sure he's on the Up and up? lol HUGS and have a great time. __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

10-11-2008, 04:57 PM	#21
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	My gosh the date is tomorrow!!!! Get a picture of this dude. Tell him you take a picture of ALL your dates so you can remember who is who....LOL. I hope you like him, hope he's nice, rich, handsome and knows how to treat a beautiful woman. I'm so excited for you!! Do you think he'd notice if you took notes for us??? __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-11-2008, 05:09 PM	#22
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Wishing you well, dear friend!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-12-2008, 11:47 AM	#23
highlans Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 462	Hope lunch went well __________________

10-12-2008, 04:03 PM	#25
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Judy!!! Girlfriend time to check in with us.. We want the scoops??? How did it go?? Come on and tell us already!!!! lol geezeeee

10-12-2008, 05:06 PM	#26
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Okay, it's 9:03 p.m. your time. Are you still on the date??? Sure hope he's nice. __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-12-2008, 05:10 PM	#27
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Judy....you get back here now and tell us about the date!!! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

10-12-2008, 05:16 PM	#28
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Judy.....oh, Judy......We're waiting!!!!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-12-2008, 06:47 PM	#29
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Ohoh, I hope he didn't run off with our Judy! We should have given her a curfew to report back to us by. I just know none of us will sleep until we hear from her! __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

10-12-2008, 08:03 PM	#30
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	Judy!! Lunch was hours ago! Dinner was hours ago!!! Where are you?? We are waiting for your report! Hope all went well and you had a fantastic time.

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