How long have you been married? - Page 3

Janet · 10-14-2006, 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

So, here's a question for all you married ladies....is it true what they say, that the first year is the hardest? Or would you disagree? What are your secrets for a healthy relationship?

I don't think our first year was the hardest. Things went pretty well up until the 7th year. I think after awhile you have to re-adjust a little bit. Kind of like a new car, after so many miles or years, you have to have a little tune-up....

RLC12345678 · 10-14-2006, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I don't think our first year was the hardest. Things went pretty well up until the 7th year. I think after awhile you have to re-adjust a little bit. Kind of like a new car, after so many miles or years, you have to have a little tune-up....

I do agree with that one. People change.

Janet · 10-14-2006, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I do agree with that one. People change.

Well.....some do, anyway...

katcarasella · 03-28-2008, 07:43 PM

I was married for 38 yrs, and I think the first two years were the hardest.

Tink · 03-29-2008, 10:43 AM

We've been married 22 yrs, together 25. This is my second marriage... the first one lasted 7 yrs.

goofywife · 03-30-2008, 12:30 PM

We will be 15 years on the 4th of July!

03-30-2008, 12:35 PM

I personally have been married 14 years! However 13 of those were with my first hubby and almost 1 now with E. I have been single 21 years!

AngieDoogles · 03-30-2008, 12:38 PM

It'll be four years in July. I'm loving it!

Janet · 03-30-2008, 02:23 PM

Marriage can be a very wonderful thing...me...LOL....I want to try something else now...LOL

Tink · 03-30-2008, 02:49 PM

Janet, it can be a miserable thing too. I know that from my first one. It took me over 4 years to decide to try it again... Greg was proposing off and on for 3 of those. LOL

Forgivenmom5 · 03-30-2008, 02:53 PM

I haven't even dated in ten years. I am not very good at judging character so I just don't try. Even if I found a good one now I think I am to independent to try. I have seen a few really good marriages thow just not right for me.

Janet · 03-30-2008, 03:49 PM

I understand that Debbie! I really do!

03-31-2008, 01:43 AM

I've been married for just over 6 months now! We love it! Although, it has been hard adjusting because I also moved 3,000 miles away from my "home" to be with my hubby (he is in the Army). God has been so good to us and has given us an incredible church "family" so WA is starting to feel a little more like "home" here lately!

pope1982 · 03-31-2008, 07:20 AM

We are engaged, but we have been dating since 99', living together since 02'.

HALEY · 03-31-2008, 10:19 AM

We dated about 9 years on and off before we got married, got married June 3rd, 2006, got pregnant on my honeymoon, big shocker hun! Been having our ups and down lately, so don't congrats. me just yet

working on it...

View Poll Results: How long have you been married?
0-1 year	5	10.20%
1-3 years	10	20.41%
3-5 years	4	8.16%
5-10 years	4	8.16%
10-15 years	6	12.24%
15-20 years	5	10.20%
20-25 years	7	14.29%
25-30 years	1	2.04%
30-35 years	5	10.20%
35+ years	2	4.08%
Voters: 49. You may not vote on this poll

03-28-2008, 07:43 PM	#34
katcarasella KAT'S KRAZY KORNER Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,031	I was married for 38 yrs, and I think the first two years were the hardest. __________________ A friend accepts us as we are yet helps us to be what we should. Kat

03-29-2008, 10:43 AM	#35
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	We've been married 22 yrs, together 25. This is my second marriage... the first one lasted 7 yrs. __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

03-30-2008, 12:30 PM	#36
goofywife Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 855	We will be 15 years on the 4th of July! __________________ Michelle (Katys mom) OK Yorkie Rescue-Another Chance at Love

03-30-2008, 12:38 PM	#38
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	It'll be four years in July. I'm loving it! __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

03-30-2008, 12:35 PM	#37
CoyoteQueen Guest Posts: n/a	I personally have been married 14 years! However 13 of those were with my first hubby and almost 1 now with E. I have been single 21 years!

03-30-2008, 02:23 PM	#39
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Marriage can be a very wonderful thing...me...LOL....I want to try something else now...LOL __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-30-2008, 02:49 PM	#40
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Janet, it can be a miserable thing too. I know that from my first one. It took me over 4 years to decide to try it again... Greg was proposing off and on for 3 of those. LOL __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

03-30-2008, 02:53 PM	#41
Forgivenmom5 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,409	I haven't even dated in ten years. I am not very good at judging character so I just don't try. Even if I found a good one now I think I am to independent to try. I have seen a few really good marriages thow just not right for me. __________________ ~Debbie~

03-30-2008, 03:49 PM	#42
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I understand that Debbie! I really do! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-31-2008, 01:43 AM	#43
MsFamousHepburn Guest Posts: n/a	I've been married for just over 6 months now! We love it! Although, it has been hard adjusting because I also moved 3,000 miles away from my "home" to be with my hubby (he is in the Army). God has been so good to us and has given us an incredible church "family" so WA is starting to feel a little more like "home" here lately!

03-31-2008, 07:20 AM	#44
pope1982 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Baltimore Posts: 673	We are engaged, but we have been dating since 99', living together since 02'.

03-31-2008, 10:19 AM	#45
HALEY Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,147	We dated about 9 years on and off before we got married, got married June 3rd, 2006, got pregnant on my honeymoon, big shocker hun! Been having our ups and down lately, so don't congrats. me just yet working on it... __________________ PROUD MOMMY

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