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Old 09-16-2006, 05:52 PM   #1
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Sexy Dancing For Your Hubby

I have been married to my dh for quite awhile now. Forever he has wanted me to "dance" for him. Ugh, I can't, no way, not ever!! I am not even really that shy around him, nor do I think it's too dirty or whatever...It's just I can't do it. I can't dance for one thing, plus I can't imagine my naked body being wrapped around a bed post or something, LOL.



Have any of you ever had the nerve to dance?

I wish I could because I know it would please him to no end...But my nerves get the better of me. Id love more than anything to surprise him some day (or night) if I could just get my nerve up.
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Old 09-16-2006, 06:14 PM   #2
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Haha I know what you mean! I would love to for my boyfriend, but I think I would just feel silly! I would like to buy Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease dvd's. Not only do you learn how to dance, you can also use it as a workout! But that's gonna have to wait until next year, when I don't have a male roommate who could walk into the living room
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Old 09-16-2006, 07:21 PM   #3
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I am too bashful for that. My husband loves my body but I am not 100% comfortable in my skin. Besides, I am a total clutz. I'd probably wind up breaking something, on him or me.
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Old 09-17-2006, 04:13 AM   #4
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Sorry ladies, Not going to happen here, NO WAY, NO HOW!!!!....
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Old 09-17-2006, 06:42 AM   #5
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I don't think it would be too sexy with me laughing hysterical as I'm doing it! I'm sure he'd be laughing just as hard!
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Old 09-17-2006, 08:23 AM   #6
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i did the strip tease lap chair dance for my hubby when we were first married but now i am way too self cconscious about my body with my stretch-marks and flabby belly and jello-butt!!! he still begs me to do it but i just can't get into it because i'll be thinking...omg what's jiggling on me now!!! i promised him that i would be his nasty girl ONLY after he buys me some big ol' boobs!!! But when i used to do it it took a couple of shots of tequila before i even thought about it!!!
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i did the strip tease lap chair dance for my hubby when we were first married but now i am way too self cconscious about my body with my stretch-marks and flabby belly and jello-butt!!! he still begs me to do it but i just can't get into it because i'll be thinking...omg what's jiggling on me now!!! i promised him that i would be his nasty girl ONLY after he buys me some big ol' boobs!!! But when i used to do it it took a couple of shots of tequila before i even thought about it!!!

LMAO !! You just described my body I know in my heart that most men couldn't care less what's shaking and a rolling, but it's just so difficult mentally for me to get past that. I might have to try those "shots" you mentioned and even then i dunno ??

And then like Carolyn said...I too would be laughing hysterically!
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Old 09-17-2006, 10:53 AM   #8
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i actually use to do this a lot for my boyfriend when we were done with highschool..

it was pretty fun, until i got fat and i wouldn't even imagine doing it now because ice queen has just revealed how my body looks! LOL
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Old 09-17-2006, 12:02 PM   #9
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I'm not a serious enough kind of person to "dance" naked .... i think i would pee in my pants from laughing I once recieved a video from someone on my cell phone of a woman doing the chicken dance, and i have this vivid imagination "flabber flabber" omg it's hysterical!!
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I will do it once I've gotten some drinks in me.
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Old 09-17-2006, 04:36 PM   #11
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Sorry ladies, Not going to happen here, NO WAY, NO HOW!!!!....

Hey girl, just wait until you get that body into shape, you may surprize yourself.
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Old 09-17-2006, 04:48 PM   #12
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In my twenties, yes. Now???? NO WAY!!!
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Old 09-17-2006, 08:13 PM   #13
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I heard of the strip tease work out video but not sure if i would do it.
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Old 09-18-2006, 07:39 AM   #14
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naaaaaaaaaaa, too self conscious
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Old 09-18-2006, 04:25 PM   #15
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i did the strip tease lap chair dance for my hubby when we were first married but now i am way too self cconscious about my body with my stretch-marks and flabby belly and jello-butt!!! he still begs me to do it but i just can't get into it because i'll be thinking...omg what's jiggling on me now!!! i promised him that i would be his nasty girl ONLY after he buys me some big ol' boobs!!! But when i used to do it it took a couple of shots of tequila before i even thought about it!!!

Honey, I don't know who you are, but you've got to quit peeking in my windows! I know what my body looks like, but I didn't know you did!1 LOL
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