I was just told to mind my own business :(

Dobie · 07-22-2008, 07:52 PM

Some parents are idiots!! The street that I live on can get fairly busy and people use it to avoid the traffic light on the next street over from us - they fly down the road.
I was just looking out my window and saw a little kid, no older then 5, riding his bike with training wheels IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD. The bike was obviously to big for him and he was wobbling all over the road. One car slammed on the brakes and almost hit him, and other cars were having to take a wide arc to go around him. I looked around and there was no adult to be found.
So, thinking I was being responsible, I went outside and pushed him onto the sidewalk, then asked where he lived. He was 2 streets away from his house - so, again, thinking I was being responsible - I walked home with him to make sure he didn't go in the street again, then explained to his mother what had happened.

She told me to mind my own business She said that if she needed a total stranger to walk her kid home, she would have knocked on my door and asked me to do it.

What was I supposed to do, just watch him get runover or even worse kidnapped>

Marilyn · 07-23-2008, 03:59 AM

Dobie, of course, you did the absolute right thing. If you see him again, I'd call the police and tell them what is going on. A child's precious life is at stake, and that parent needs to be more responsible!!!!!!!!!!! Some people can be soooo frustrating!!!!

Janet · 07-23-2008, 04:39 AM

You DID do the right thing. I can not believe her comment. Marilyn's right. Next time you see him out without parental supervision, call the police. I really feel some people should be 'fixed.'

Emmsmom · 07-23-2008, 05:08 AM

I think you did the right thing! I would have done the same. I think you should call the police and let them know what happened. A child that age should NOT be playing by themselves 2 streets over! That is just insane! You did the right thing so I wouldn't worry about what this so called "mother" said to you.

Tink · 07-23-2008, 06:51 AM

Dobie, thanks for trying to help this little guy. You're obviously wiser and more caring than his own Mom. How sad for him. No way a 5 yr old is ready to ride a bike on a street alone!

Gina · 07-23-2008, 07:10 AM

Dobie you did the right thing, that mother is an idiot. I feel bad for that child she is so lucky that you brought him home.. How can she leave a 5yr old unattended. I don't know what I would do but sure sounds like someone should alert the police or someone. She was lucky this time.. That he was not killed or kidnapped.

PS I hope you got the satisfication in telling her off because man she needs it!!!

AngieDoogles · 07-23-2008, 09:03 AM

I agree, you definitely did the right thing. You might want to consider calling your state's child protective services, especially if it happens again. They treat neglect cases as seriously as abuse. I'd hate to think that this little boy could be hurt or killed because the mother isn't providing proper supervision.

DianaB · 07-23-2008, 10:50 AM

I think that you did the right thing too, Dobie. Don't let someone's rude comment keep you from feeling that you did the right thing. You saw the danger that her son was in, not the Mother.

Emmsmom · 07-23-2008, 06:46 PM

I would suggest going to the local Dept of Social Services but they don't always have the children's best interest at heart. Sadly the ones in my area don't do squat! I also have another friend that asked for their help and got nothing but trouble from them. I think calling the police and letting them go over and say something to the family might do more. At least it may scare them really good. Just having gone over may have helped.

Shada · 07-23-2008, 07:16 PM

The other night at 9:00pm I was driving thru town and saw 2 young children, neither one over 5 probably. In the street. Main street! One was on a skateboard, the other on a bike. I thought about going to the police station which was close, then noticed a police car behind me. I thought for sure he would pull over and do something... he drove right on by. I was furious!! We have a curfew, but regardless, these were little kids alone and on main street with traffic!!! He should have stopped.
I don't understand. Where were the parents?? Why didn't the officer stop?? These kids were way to young to be out at that time of night alone!!!

AngieDoogles · 07-23-2008, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Emmsmom

I would suggest going to the local Dept of Social Services but they don't always have the children's best interest at heart. Sadly the ones in my area don't do squat! I also have another friend that asked for their help and got nothing but trouble from them. I think calling the police and letting them go over and say something to the family might do more. At least it may scare them really good. Just having gone over may have helped.

This wouldn't be a police matter. They'd just refer DCS.

AngieDoogles · 07-23-2008, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Shada

The other night at 9:00pm I was driving thru town and saw 2 young children, neither one over 5 probably. In the street. Main street! One was on a skateboard, the other on a bike. I thought about going to the police station which was close, then noticed a police car behind me. I thought for sure he would pull over and do something... he drove right on by. I was furious!! We have a curfew, but regardless, these were little kids alone and on main street with traffic!!! He should have stopped.
I don't understand. Where were the parents?? Why didn't the officer stop?? These kids were way to young to be out at that time of night alone!!!

It's just crazy what some parents allow their children to do...

teri88 · 07-24-2008, 06:24 AM

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Originally Posted by AngieDoogles

I agree, you definitely did the right thing. You might want to consider calling your state's child protective services, especially if it happens again. They treat neglect cases as seriously as abuse. I'd hate to think that this little boy could be hurt or killed because the mother isn't providing proper supervision.

yeah that! I was going to say the same thing. It's a shame that people don't want to get involved today, and when someone goes out of their way to help they get verbally abused like that!

HALEY · 07-24-2008, 07:57 AM

Don't feel bad you did the right thing! Some parents shouldn't be blessed with children..
Micah is never out of my sight when we go out, anywhere!

DianaB · 07-24-2008, 10:00 AM

I have a problem with thinking about turning someone into the authorities. If I saw a problem then I would consider it. I'm just not for turning anyone into the authorities. I hate to think that that's what our society is turning into.

07-22-2008, 07:52 PM	#1
Dobie Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 1,075	I was just told to mind my own business :( Some parents are idiots!! The street that I live on can get fairly busy and people use it to avoid the traffic light on the next street over from us - they fly down the road. I was just looking out my window and saw a little kid, no older then 5, riding his bike with training wheels IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD. The bike was obviously to big for him and he was wobbling all over the road. One car slammed on the brakes and almost hit him, and other cars were having to take a wide arc to go around him. I looked around and there was no adult to be found. So, thinking I was being responsible, I went outside and pushed him onto the sidewalk, then asked where he lived. He was 2 streets away from his house - so, again, thinking I was being responsible - I walked home with him to make sure he didn't go in the street again, then explained to his mother what had happened. She told me to mind my own business She said that if she needed a total stranger to walk her kid home, she would have knocked on my door and asked me to do it. What was I supposed to do, just watch him get runover or even worse kidnapped>

07-23-2008, 03:59 AM	#2
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Dobie, of course, you did the absolute right thing. If you see him again, I'd call the police and tell them what is going on. A child's precious life is at stake, and that parent needs to be more responsible!!!!!!!!!!! Some people can be soooo frustrating!!!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

07-23-2008, 04:39 AM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	You DID do the right thing. I can not believe her comment. Marilyn's right. Next time you see him out without parental supervision, call the police. I really feel some people should be 'fixed.' __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

07-23-2008, 05:08 AM	#4
Emmsmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 612	I think you did the right thing! I would have done the same. I think you should call the police and let them know what happened. A child that age should NOT be playing by themselves 2 streets over! That is just insane! You did the right thing so I wouldn't worry about what this so called "mother" said to you. __________________ MICHELLE

07-23-2008, 06:51 AM	#5
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Dobie, thanks for trying to help this little guy. You're obviously wiser and more caring than his own Mom. How sad for him. No way a 5 yr old is ready to ride a bike on a street alone! __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

07-23-2008, 07:10 AM	#6
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Dobie you did the right thing, that mother is an idiot. I feel bad for that child she is so lucky that you brought him home.. How can she leave a 5yr old unattended. I don't know what I would do but sure sounds like someone should alert the police or someone. She was lucky this time.. That he was not killed or kidnapped. PS I hope you got the satisfication in telling her off because man she needs it!!!

07-23-2008, 09:03 AM	#7
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	I agree, you definitely did the right thing. You might want to consider calling your state's child protective services, especially if it happens again. They treat neglect cases as seriously as abuse. I'd hate to think that this little boy could be hurt or killed because the mother isn't providing proper supervision. __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

07-23-2008, 10:50 AM	#8
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I think that you did the right thing too, Dobie. Don't let someone's rude comment keep you from feeling that you did the right thing. You saw the danger that her son was in, not the Mother. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

07-23-2008, 06:46 PM	#9
Emmsmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 612	I would suggest going to the local Dept of Social Services but they don't always have the children's best interest at heart. Sadly the ones in my area don't do squat! I also have another friend that asked for their help and got nothing but trouble from them. I think calling the police and letting them go over and say something to the family might do more. At least it may scare them really good. Just having gone over may have helped. __________________ MICHELLE

07-23-2008, 07:16 PM	#10
Shada Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,228	The other night at 9:00pm I was driving thru town and saw 2 young children, neither one over 5 probably. In the street. Main street! One was on a skateboard, the other on a bike. I thought about going to the police station which was close, then noticed a police car behind me. I thought for sure he would pull over and do something... he drove right on by. I was furious!! We have a curfew, but regardless, these were little kids alone and on main street with traffic!!! He should have stopped. I don't understand. Where were the parents?? Why didn't the officer stop?? These kids were way to young to be out at that time of night alone!!!

07-24-2008, 07:57 AM	#14
HALEY Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,147	Don't feel bad you did the right thing! Some parents shouldn't be blessed with children.. Micah is never out of my sight when we go out, anywhere! __________________ PROUD MOMMY

07-24-2008, 10:00 AM	#15
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I have a problem with thinking about turning someone into the authorities. If I saw a problem then I would consider it. I'm just not for turning anyone into the authorities. I hate to think that that's what our society is turning into. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

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