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Old 11-06-2006, 08:00 AM   #1
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Ok, ladies....

I've posted SEVERAL threads this morning that were designed to entice some healthy conversation or debate around here. My goal is to get this place heated up a little. Don't be afraid to post a comment on one of my threads, even if you disagree with what someone else has said or if you think your comment may seem controversial. A little friendly debate never hurt anyone.
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Old 11-06-2006, 08:03 AM   #2
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That's right, FRIENDLY DEBATES can be healthy. Let's just make sure it's the topic we debate and not each other.
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Old 11-06-2006, 08:04 AM   #3
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That's right, FRIENDLY DEBATES can be healthy. Let's just make sure it's the topic we debate and not each other.
Completely agree!!!!!! I think one of the things that makes YT interesting is all the different people with so many different opinions and personalities.
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Old 11-06-2006, 08:27 AM   #4
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Old 11-06-2006, 01:36 PM   #5
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Completely agree!!!!!! I think one of the things that makes YT interesting is all the different people with so many different opinions and personalities.

I do too, but sometimes some of the ladies there want to shove their opinions down ones throat and don't want to let up any. That is bothersome to me. Others just jump right on the thread without reading every post and blurt out their opinion and don't have a clue what has been discussed. I've always been interested in others opinions on just about anything, but don't want it shoved down my throat. I would never do that to some one else and don't appreciate it being done to me.

Some of them on the bashing end...I get to feeling so sorry for, I know they didn't see it coming. I always think there is a kind way to get ones point across.
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Old 11-06-2006, 03:48 PM   #6
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I do too, but sometimes some of the ladies there want to shove their opinions down ones throat and don't want to let up any. That is bothersome to me. Others just jump right on the thread without reading every post and blurt out their opinion and don't have a clue what has been discussed. I've always been interested in others opinions on just about anything, but don't want it shoved down my throat. I would never do that to some one else and don't appreciate it being done to me.

Some of them on the bashing end...I get to feeling so sorry for, I know they didn't see it coming. I always think there is a kind way to get ones point across.

I totaly agree, everyone has their own opinion right or wrong, this is a free country and everyone is entitled. I do understand how on YT people get hostile so to speak. First all that is said on here is through words, no emotions, no feelings no nothing! Just writing on a paper, you don't know the person so how can anyone deceipher the true meaning. Soemtimes things come across very cold in a sense when actually they didn't mean it that way. Sooo ladies a friendly debate never hurt anyone...lol actually a good rebuttal is fun...
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Old 11-06-2006, 07:16 PM   #7
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I've posted SEVERAL threads this morning that were designed to entice some healthy conversation or debate around here. My goal is to get this place heated up a little. Don't be afraid to post a comment on one of my threads, even if you disagree with what someone else has said or if you think your comment may seem controversial. A little friendly debate never hurt anyone.
You go girl!! I couldn't have said it better. Now, what can I go disagree on? I love to play devil's advocate.
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Old 11-06-2006, 07:17 PM   #8
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I do too, but sometimes some of the ladies there want to shove their opinions down ones throat and don't want to let up any. That is bothersome to me. Others just jump right on the thread without reading every post and blurt out their opinion and don't have a clue what has been discussed. I've always been interested in others opinions on just about anything, but don't want it shoved down my throat. I would never do that to some one else and don't appreciate it being done to me.

Some of them on the bashing end...I get to feeling so sorry for, I know they didn't see it coming. I always think there is a kind way to get ones point across.

And yet again....I couldn't have said it better myself!! I love you ladies!!
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The ladies on this site all seem to get along pretty well. Let's get going!!!! Thanks Rebecca for trying to mix it up.
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Old 12-16-2006, 07:12 AM   #10
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What ....cause we don't debate with you you're tryin to make something of it ....huh woman ??? What exactly are ya gonna do about it ??

(is that heated enough for you ?)

Doesn't "expecting the unexpected" make the unexpected expected?

and the more I thought the more I decided to post this - hehe -
There are two theories to arguing with a woman -- neither one works.

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Don't try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and it annoys the pig.

hahahaha Is that deep enough for you ????? got something to say NOW ???
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Old 12-16-2006, 07:21 AM   #11
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I was thinking there is someone out there who your post was PERFECT for & lives on drama and debate - you'd have got your wish and then some ....but the forum masters took care of THAT for us and that person is no longer here...

I seriously doubt you'll have too many people debating with you - who Could ???? You're too nice !!
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Old 12-16-2006, 01:23 PM   #12
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I was thinking there is someone out there who your post was PERFECT for & lives on drama and debate - you'd have got your wish and then some ....but the forum masters took care of THAT for us and that person is no longer here...

I seriously doubt you'll have too many people debating with you - who Could ???? You're too nice !!

Oh wow....someone wasn't allowed here? There was someone that lives on drama and debate and they "were" here? I haven't the faintest idea who that was.....I don't think...

I love a nice healthy debate, just as long as it doesn't attack someone or hurt someone's feelings. I think a difference of opinion can give us all something to learn. But now Villette, you got me wondering!!!! I'm glad the forum masters take care of that kind of thing...
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Old 12-17-2006, 08:03 AM   #13
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There's always going to be people on the net that post for other reasons than why WE do - I just know the admin is great at spotting them -

since the same admin runs YT ...I know when I've seen troll posts - they're gone almost immediately - with a big site like that - I bet it can be such a pain but they're pretty good at spotting them and deleting
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Old 12-18-2006, 06:39 AM   #14
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There's always going to be people on the net that post for other reasons than why WE do - I just know the admin is great at spotting them -

since the same admin runs YT ...I know when I've seen troll posts - they're gone almost immediately - with a big site like that - I bet it can be such a pain but they're pretty good at spotting them and deleting
*SNORKS** omg omg omg V!! LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I caught that little "joke"!!
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Old 12-18-2006, 07:28 AM   #15
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*SNORKS** omg omg omg V!! LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! I caught that little "joke"!!

I must be totally dumb...I didn't catch a thing....LOL I usually have to have things explained to me....duh!!!
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