Boy crazy!!!?!??!??!?!?!!?!!!

toodles · 01-26-2008, 07:01 PM

yesterday, I got an email from my daughters teacher. It said that she is having some trouble with her not "focusing" in class because she seems a little "boy crazy"

OMG she is 6 years old!!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooooooo in trouble. I just DREAD the years to come.

I had a talk with her about how important school is and that she needs to be sure to focus on her work and not her "friends". I just have NO idea how to handle this...she is soooooooo young!!!! she's my BABY!!!!!!!!

Marilyn · 01-26-2008, 07:22 PM

Awww, don't worry, this too will pass. Melissa had a boyfriend in kingergarten.

They even got in trouble for kissing at school and were talking about getting married some day. We and his parents did not know what to do. The teacher told us at least she had picked a really nice boy, from a very nice family. Well he threw Melissa over for Brittany which broke her heart at the time. She did not have another boyfriend until middle school.

toodles · 01-26-2008, 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Marilyn

Awww, don't worry, this too will pass. Melissa had a boyfriend in kingergarten.

They even got in trouble for kissing at school and were talking about getting married some day. We and his parents did not know what to do. The teacher told us at least she had picked a really nice boy, from a very nice family. Well he threw Melissa over for Brittany which broke her heart at the time. She did not have another boyfriend until middle school.

that sounds familiar...trinity's "interest" has picked another girl..i thought it really bothered her..but she says she doesn't care. I still think it bothers her tho. she just is too shy..or proud... to say that it does.

Janet · 01-27-2008, 05:33 AM

Oh wow, you've asked for it

....LOL...here comes another story!!!

I have girl that rides my bus, this year she is in the 7th grade. When she was in 2nd grade, she was sooo boy crazy. She would always come up and ask me who 'he' was or what was 'his' name.

They were usually Jr high boys.

One day she came up and said that this one boy was so cute and I said "Jennifer, you sure love the boys, I'm gonna tell this guy how cute you think he is" and she got all red in the face, mind you a 2nd grader and put her hands over her face and said: "Oh Janet, if you do that I will die, I will just fall down and die" and I laughed so hard I thought I would fall out of my seat. I told her not to worry I wouldn't tell. She still loves the boys, but she's a good girl.

toodles · 01-27-2008, 02:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janet

Oh wow, you've asked for it

....LOL...here comes another story!!!

I have girl that rides my bus, this year she is in the 7th grade. When she was in 2nd grade, she was sooo boy crazy. She would always come up and ask me who 'he' was or what was 'his' name.

They were usually Jr high boys.

One day she came up and said that this one boy was so cute and I said "Jennifer, you sure love the boys, I'm gonna tell this guy how cute you think he is" and she got all red in the face, mind you a 2nd grader and put her hands over her face and said: "Oh Janet, if you do that I will die, I will just fall down and die" and I laughed so hard I thought I would fall out of my seat. I told her not to worry I wouldn't tell. She still loves the boys, but she's a good girl.

HAHA that is really funny

DianaB · 01-28-2008, 01:12 PM

I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it effects her school work. You might need to remind her how important to do a good job on her work. Keep the communication open with her and know what's going on in her life. I have a 15 year old that still comes home from school and tells me what all has gone on in her day. We have a good relationship because of our little chats.

judy · 01-28-2008, 04:20 PM

They're so cute when they're little like that. Jessie had a boyfriend, Anthony, in nursery school. When they took their naps, they would lie on their mats and hook pinkies. He gave her a present in a box, and called one day. I listened in on the other phone. He told her he loved her, but she just kept on talking.

Jessie did not grow out of being boy crazy, but she still did well in school.

Taurus Babe · 04-12-2008, 09:09 PM

what great stories! So cute!

goofywife · 04-12-2008, 11:03 PM

Awww, how cute. Don't get on to her too hard. I am sure she is just making friends.

Janet · 04-13-2008, 03:29 AM

Well toodles, has your daughter got married yet?...LOL. Just saw that someone brought this thread back up, so I reread it. Very cute.

I do hope your daughter is 'focusing' more on school work and not the boys..LOL

Tink · 04-13-2008, 07:00 AM

I went to my grandaughters school for grandparents day. She is in 2nd grade. I had been told by a little bird that she has a bit of a crush on a boy who sits next to her... so while in the classroom, I saw this little prince charming. I whispered in Paige's ear "OOOOOOHHHH He's cute! No wonder you like school!" She got all red faced and said "Nana! He's going to hear you!" She still manages to do well in school though. lol

Gina · 04-13-2008, 10:23 AM

I got a chuckle out of reading all the stories.. soo cute!

Emmsmom · 04-13-2008, 04:12 PM

I think I would handle this in a different way. I would seriously try to nip it in the bud quick. I have a 10 year old daughter who likes boys and thinks they are cute and I have told her that is fine. She will be 11 in August. I have also told her that it goes NO farther than that beause she is still too little to be thinking about kissing boys. I am a Sub-Teacher at her school and I am shocked by some of the behavior that the younger ones display. Some are so boy crazy that it is really scary.

My daughter use to be friends with a girl who was 2 years younger than she. Well this little girl came over to have a sleepover and all she wanted to do was call her boyfriend and at 10 PM on top of it. UMM HELLO.... I told her that to begin with she was not playing on the phone all night and another thing that she was just too young (7 1/2 at the time) to be messing around with boys. All she could talk about was her what her BF had bought her or that she liked kissing him... Well I made sure that the friendship came to an end. She has only gotten worse and now has some what of a "rep" even at her young age.

The kids are just growing up so fast these days that it is scary. Girls will drive you crazy won't they! I sure know that mine is. Things will work out I am sure. I think just letting her know that little girls don't act certain ways help a lot.

toodles · 04-14-2008, 01:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Janet

Well toodles, has your daughter got married yet?...LOL. Just saw that someone brought this thread back up, so I reread it. Very cute.

I do hope your daughter is 'focusing' more on school work and not the boys..LOL

ACTUALLY...she is letting her school work slip a lot...but I am not being told it is because she is boy crazy LOL she SEEMS to have gotten past that...but she is letting other things keep her from doing her work...I'm still trying to figure out what those "other" things are. She is going to be the death of me LOL

judy · 04-17-2008, 07:42 AM

I hope she learns to focus on her school work. They can drive you crazy between this and that!

Then, they finally grow up and are okay, and give you grandchildren. Now granchildren are such a blessing, but they're also a new batch of kids to worry over! It does not end EVER!

Love does not come cheap!

01-26-2008, 07:01 PM	#1
toodles Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Nashville, Tn Posts: 243	Boy crazy!!!?!??!??!?!?!!?!!! yesterday, I got an email from my daughters teacher. It said that she is having some trouble with her not "focusing" in class because she seems a little "boy crazy" OMG she is 6 years old!!!!!!!!!!! I am sooooooooo in trouble. I just DREAD the years to come. I had a talk with her about how important school is and that she needs to be sure to focus on her work and not her "friends". I just have NO idea how to handle this...she is soooooooo young!!!! she's my BABY!!!!!!!! __________________ Give me coffee & I'll be your buddy 4ever "Toodles" Mandee...AKA-Pepe Mint on YT

01-26-2008, 07:22 PM	#2
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Awww, don't worry, this too will pass. Melissa had a boyfriend in kingergarten. They even got in trouble for kissing at school and were talking about getting married some day. We and his parents did not know what to do. The teacher told us at least she had picked a really nice boy, from a very nice family. Well he threw Melissa over for Brittany which broke her heart at the time. She did not have another boyfriend until middle school. __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

01-27-2008, 05:33 AM	#4
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Oh wow, you've asked for it ....LOL...here comes another story!!! I have girl that rides my bus, this year she is in the 7th grade. When she was in 2nd grade, she was sooo boy crazy. She would always come up and ask me who 'he' was or what was 'his' name. They were usually Jr high boys. One day she came up and said that this one boy was so cute and I said "Jennifer, you sure love the boys, I'm gonna tell this guy how cute you think he is" and she got all red in the face, mind you a 2nd grader and put her hands over her face and said: "Oh Janet, if you do that I will die, I will just fall down and die" and I laughed so hard I thought I would fall out of my seat. I told her not to worry I wouldn't tell. She still loves the boys, but she's a good girl. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

01-28-2008, 01:12 PM	#6
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it effects her school work. You might need to remind her how important to do a good job on her work. Keep the communication open with her and know what's going on in her life. I have a 15 year old that still comes home from school and tells me what all has gone on in her day. We have a good relationship because of our little chats. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

01-28-2008, 04:20 PM	#7
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	They're so cute when they're little like that. Jessie had a boyfriend, Anthony, in nursery school. When they took their naps, they would lie on their mats and hook pinkies. He gave her a present in a box, and called one day. I listened in on the other phone. He told her he loved her, but she just kept on talking. Jessie did not grow out of being boy crazy, but she still did well in school. __________________ *Judy*

04-12-2008, 09:09 PM	#8
Taurus Babe Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 668	what great stories! So cute! __________________ Taurus Babe aka Thorsmomma

04-12-2008, 11:03 PM	#9
goofywife Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 855	Awww, how cute. Don't get on to her too hard. I am sure she is just making friends. __________________ Michelle (Katys mom) OK Yorkie Rescue-Another Chance at Love

04-13-2008, 03:29 AM	#10
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,624	Well toodles, has your daughter got married yet?...LOL. Just saw that someone brought this thread back up, so I reread it. Very cute. I do hope your daughter is 'focusing' more on school work and not the boys..LOL __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

04-13-2008, 07:00 AM	#11
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	I went to my grandaughters school for grandparents day. She is in 2nd grade. I had been told by a little bird that she has a bit of a crush on a boy who sits next to her... so while in the classroom, I saw this little prince charming. I whispered in Paige's ear "OOOOOOHHHH He's cute! No wonder you like school!" She got all red faced and said "Nana! He's going to hear you!" She still manages to do well in school though. lol __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

04-13-2008, 10:23 AM	#12
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	I got a chuckle out of reading all the stories.. soo cute!

04-13-2008, 04:12 PM	#13
Emmsmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 612	I think I would handle this in a different way. I would seriously try to nip it in the bud quick. I have a 10 year old daughter who likes boys and thinks they are cute and I have told her that is fine. She will be 11 in August. I have also told her that it goes NO farther than that beause she is still too little to be thinking about kissing boys. I am a Sub-Teacher at her school and I am shocked by some of the behavior that the younger ones display. Some are so boy crazy that it is really scary. My daughter use to be friends with a girl who was 2 years younger than she. Well this little girl came over to have a sleepover and all she wanted to do was call her boyfriend and at 10 PM on top of it. UMM HELLO.... I told her that to begin with she was not playing on the phone all night and another thing that she was just too young (7 1/2 at the time) to be messing around with boys. All she could talk about was her what her BF had bought her or that she liked kissing him... Well I made sure that the friendship came to an end. She has only gotten worse and now has some what of a "rep" even at her young age. The kids are just growing up so fast these days that it is scary. Girls will drive you crazy won't they! I sure know that mine is. Things will work out I am sure. I think just letting her know that little girls don't act certain ways help a lot. __________________ MICHELLE

04-17-2008, 07:42 AM	#15
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	I hope she learns to focus on her school work. They can drive you crazy between this and that! Then, they finally grow up and are okay, and give you grandchildren. Now granchildren are such a blessing, but they're also a new batch of kids to worry over! It does not end EVER! Love does not come cheap! __________________ *Judy*

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