Have any of you gone through fertility treatments

[Dobie]

Just curious if any of you have gone through, or know anyone who has gone through IVF treatments. I could really use some success stories.

I'm 41, have devoted my entire life to working with kids, but have not been blessed with a child of my own. Jim and I are about to start our second round of IVF - the first one was a disaster and I don't know if I can handle another heartbreak like that.

So, now I'm obsessing on it and only seeing doom and gloom - so, like I said - any success stories would be welcomed.

Aw Dobie, I tried to call you today. A lady from my office had fertility treatments last year. she has PCOS like I do and just gave birth to twins like last week. They are so cute!!!!

[Dobie]

Hey - just got your message a little while ago - it was to late to call. I'll give you a ring tomorrow.
I'm scared to death about this new round. I really don't want to hear the doctor say that we don't have any embryos again.

[Tink]

There's a site at http://www.forums.parenthood.com/vie...1bd24eb7387acd that is a very active bulletin board for those using IVF and other reproductive aids. I know many success stories from there. I'm sure they'd be happy to share with you.

[Dobie]

Thanks, I'll check it out.

[Janet]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I did too, but I didn't have a success story, I hope that you do.

My success story came by adoption.

[pope1982]

My thoughts are with you Cheryl, wish you and Jim all the best

You are a strong woman, I know you can handle it. Jim knows you can too, I can see that is one of the many reasons he loves you and chose to go through this with you
Some times it takes a couple rain storms to see the rainbow... Just think of the bigger picture, it will all be worth it babe.

Have you even seen the TLC show "John and Kate Plus Eight"?
They have two sets of multiples lol twin girls and then sextuplets!

[pope1982]

Oh, I forgot to add... both of my sisters and my mother never had difficulties. If you even looked at them, they got pregnant!

I have been with Brad for a long time, and for a while, we didn't use any protection. I have always had a horrible feeling that I wouldn't be able to get pregnant on my own.
So in a way, I some what understand your frustration, disappointment and fears.

But I always say, we will cross that bridge when it's time! I am so proud of you.

Originally Posted by pope1982

Oh, I forgot to add... both of my sisters and my mother never had difficulties. If you even looked at them, they got pregnant!

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quit looking at your sister!

[Dobie]

Originally Posted by pope1982

My thoughts are with you Cheryl, wish you and Jim all the best

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Thanks Becky - it really has been a difficult time. We were so optimistic the first time around but none of the embryos survived to the implantation stage. I due to start my cycle any day now, and the twice daily shots will begin again. Jim has been wonderful through all of the mood swings and the emotional roller coaster. We're doing a different med cycle this time - so hopefully we'll have better results.

Oh - and I'd probably be better emotionally if the doctors could refrain from telling me how ancient I am for even 1 visit!!

[Marilyn]

So hope this works for you. I can relate to your frustration. We tried for 9 years before having our first. Fortunately we did not have to resort to IVF. They were just beginning to do the procedure when we became pregnant. I took prednisone and Clomid for years. Had surgery, ovarian wedge resection. Hubby had surgery, too, and took hormone shots. We were quite a pair, both with infertility issues. I was taking 5 Clomid a day when we finally got pregnant the first time. They did an ultrasound as soon as they could to "see how many are in there". Fortunately, there was only one each time. After the first, delivered by C-Section because my pelvis would not open, we tried again taking the 5 daily Clomid and became pregnant the first try, so we have two daughters 18 months apart who are now 21 and 22 years old. We were overprotective parents and took the job very seriously. They are wonderful daughters and we thank God every day for them.

We cried lots of nights because we wanted children so badly and it just wasn't happening for us. I stood on my head after sex, did anything anyone suggested that might help. Overheard and endured the whispers at family events, people wondering why we did not have childern and if there was something wrong. I had PCOS, and fortunately show very few of the outward symptoms of the disease.

We became pregnant with a third, and I miscarried. After that, things went downhill. First there were bad cells in my uterus, then cervix, so ended up having a hysterectomy.

I will be praying that you are successful this time. We have discussed what we would have done had things not worked out as they did. We know a couple who adopted the most precious two little boys from South America. They were infants when they got them, and though not brothers about the same age. They are very happy, and we realize now that we could have loved adopted children as our own. At the time, we thought we just had to have our own, and are very happy that it worked out for us, but if it had not, we could have loved and been just as proud of adopted children.

Truly and sincerely wishing you the very best outcome!!

[katcarasella]

Dobie,
Sending prayers and good wishes to you and hubby.
Keep thinking positive.

[DianaB]

Dobie, I'm sorry to hear that you're having troubles. I know that not being able to conceive can be really devistating to a woman. I have several younger friends who are having trouble but instead of spending time and money on procedures they've checked into adoption. One couple is #10 on a list to get a child from South Korea so, hopefully, it will be in a few months. We have several couples in our communtiy that have adopted foreign children. It may be something you may want to consider in the future. I'll say a prayer that all works out well for you.

[Gina]

Dobie don't give up, my friend had adopted two boys and then she was going for IVF treatments it finally happend a year after she adopted her little boy . She is will be 52 yrs old and gave birth 5 yrs ago to a boy . So never say never.. Good luck I will keep you in my prayers.

[pope1982]

Thank you so much for sharing you personal stories with all of us ladies

You are very welcome Cheryl