I'm so sorry that this didn't go well for you mabey just give her some time to cool off and don't bring up the money to her it's not worth losing a relationship with your mom over. Sometimes we have to swallow our pride to make a mends with our parents i have had to do this a lot but in the end all that matters is your relationship stays intact. Just tell her you didn't mean to hurt her feelings and your sorry but you just wanted to tell her how you felt moms are hard sometimes but i'm sure she will come around. We are here for you ok.

As Janet said, never ever tell your parents about a fight between the two of you, they never forget it, when we have long forgotten it, it's still as clear as daylight in their memory. Keep your hubby well away of any conflict you have with your Mom.
Give her a few days, then call her or write her a nice card, let her know that this is not what you want.

thanks for all the support ladies it has helped having this site so i can talk to someone bless you all my heart feels broken at the moment i really do not want to fall out it was never my intention