am i right?

hi all over the last few years i have been breeding yorkies with my mum, its nothing big time but we share the profits of each pup we sell we always go half, now earlier this year a litter of pups were born at my mums house the dog killed them very sad of course, my litter of pups 5 in all were sold last week i gave mum her share, anywayz mums pet yorkie got pregnant by mistake, she had her pups which were sold on and mum has not divided the money because this was her pet dog, i have passed on the proceeds of 8 pups so far this year and have recieved only the proceeds of 2 from her, we always agreed that any monies made would be divided, i feel so angry but how do i get over this subject with her . i feel let down and frankly out of pocket am i wrong? because technically mum has not lost out atall with the loss of the 4 pups because she has kept a full litters money were as i have had half shares of one litter does this make sense to you??

[Amber_lv]

i would just tell her how you feel about it and if she isn't willing to split it then i wouldn't split your next litter.

[Janet]

Just talk with her and let her know how you feel.

thanks i do not want to argue and i understand that the bitch that had the pups was not one we used for breeding , but all said and done i have lost out because her dog killed her pups because a neighbour came in and scared the mom, and if it was the other way around i would share the cash out of fairness, she has never mentioned that we would not have a share in this litter and we were depending on the money to pay off some bills really, i was very excited to be able to clear some debt really so i have spent the last couple of dayss in tears i am no further ahead and i feel let down, i was expecting her to call and say that she was bringing the money round i am just so upset and angry

[magnolia]

I would definitely talk with her and let her know how you feel. If the female pet who had the litter is one that is to be "off limits" and not in the mix to share, then your mom should have made that clear to you then you wouldn't feel as you do now. In my opinion, if this particular furbaby is not to be in the loop and you were not aware before the litter was whelped, then to make things right, your mom should split this litter with you but no future ones if another accident occurs. That way, there is no hard feelings between either of you. Best of luck to you

[Mandy]

Definatly talk to your mom, tell her how you feel, and what your thoughts are, maybe she has a different view of things, and might not be aware of this.

[Kimberley]

be honest with her. Let her know how you feel.

[rivermom]

I agree with everyone else. Communication is the best key. I think that if you don't discuss this with her it will only build inside you, then possibly do more damage in the long run.

Hope it all works out for you.

[Marilyn]

You've received some good advice here. I'd try to talk to her and then really listen to what she has to say. You need to work to maintain relationships, and the one with your mom is special. She won't be around forever.

[Jlynn]

Talk to her. Don't let this fester. She's your mom and your relationship is more important, you need to discuss this.

well ladies we discussed it and i have just had a phone call from my mum who has saod she is disgusted that my husband thinks that she would do us out of money and she said she will never call again or come around again and slammed the phone down on me, i did not once accuse her of that i just was not informed of her reasons the did not communicate well, you see the pups were bottle fed i know that is hard work, i would have helped i offered to feed them while they had days out during the summer but was turned down, my bitch also had pups at the time 5 in all and the bitch was howling at times upto 3/4 times a night and messing so iwas sleep deprived too she continued with this until the pups were sold, so i could not help much with the pups with feeding them at night, because i had my own probs with my girlie, mum took this as i was not interested in the litter and not helping so i was not included, i am gutted that it has come to this