[Janet]

I knew you had to be busy house hunting..you haven't been here quite as much, but hey, me either for the last couple of days.

I too, think you need to see the place closer to your daughter, then if it's not what you want, you won't think about whether it was the right or wrong choice. The other one, New Paltz sounds more like something you'd like with plenty to do. Like you said...you need to tread lightly for awhile and don't rush things...as hard as that is sometimes. You're so thrilled with having your family back together it's hard not to just live in the moment.

I know how dissappointing the holidays can be. We always had Christmas Eve with hubby's side of the family...this year we won't be doing anything. Hopefully we'll play some games or do something to keep our minds on Christmas and not our loss.

I know things will work out the way that is best for you and I'm praying that you'll be happy however that may be.