House Hunting, My daughter, etc.

[Janet]

I knew you had to be busy house hunting..you haven't been here quite as much, but hey, me either for the last couple of days.

I too, think you need to see the place closer to your daughter, then if it's not what you want, you won't think about whether it was the right or wrong choice. The other one, New Paltz sounds more like something you'd like with plenty to do. Like you said...you need to tread lightly for awhile and don't rush things...as hard as that is sometimes. You're so thrilled with having your family back together it's hard not to just live in the moment.

I know how dissappointing the holidays can be. We always had Christmas Eve with hubby's side of the family...this year we won't be doing anything. Hopefully we'll play some games or do something to keep our minds on Christmas and not our loss.

I know things will work out the way that is best for you and I'm praying that you'll be happy however that may be.

[DianaB]

You DO have some tremendous decisions to make. How far is New Paltz from your daughter? I gather that you would probably be closer than you are now. You're going to have to tread lightly, like you've already mentioned.

I know that for myself, I prefer to just have my own family for Christmas morning and while we open gifts, after that I don't care who comes over, the more the merrier! Just give them this little time with their family and then you can show up like "Santa Grandma" all laden down with your own presents for the kids!! Also, get them some games that you can play with them throughout the day. You're going to have a great Christmas, Judy!!!

[rivermom]

The idea that Diana gave about the games for the grandkids is a wonderful idea. The playtime with the kids will give them a memory forever.

I remember being a wee-little girl my Grandma sitting with me coloring one day. I even remember the coloring book, it was a Holly Hobby book. I can still see in my mind her finishing her own color page and signing "Grandma" at the bottom. That little moment has lasted me a very wonderful memory.

By the time you show up the grandkids will be done with all their crazy morning excitement and be ready to have some true relaxed fun with their Grandma.

[AngieDoogles]

Judy, it sounds like you've been incredibly busy! It's exciting that you've narrowed your search down to two areas. I agree with the others, you should definitely at least look at both and then make your decision from there. As long as you continue to keep the lines of communication open as you are doing, I'm sure everything will work out just wonderfully for you and Jessie.

As far as Christmas goes, you will have a great day! Christmas morning you'll just be so excited about the prospect of seeing your daughter and grandkids, I doubt you'll even have time to be sad! I like the phrase Diana used "Santa Grandma". They are just going to be SO happy to see you which will in turn just make you the happiest grandma on earth.

*hugs* Changes are hard, but (especially in this case) it'll all be worth it in the end!

Good luck to you and I hope you have a wonderful holiday!

[judy]

"Santa Grandma" is going up there Christmas afternoon. I really think you guys are right. I'll be getting there after the hectic Christmas morning, won't be interfering with their family time, which is important, and still won't be alone on Christmas.

Diana, New Paltz is around 2 hours from my daughter. I'll probably be able to cut it down to 1 1/2 hours after I get to know my way around. It's really a nice distance. Not too near and not too far.

I've decided not to look at the condos up near her. After their weather this week (snow and icy roads), I know I won't be happy. New Paltz had a little rain and it's cold. That's more for me.

I got my mortgage approved today! I'm going to look at a place this week. I understand that I have to shop for a mortgage at the best rate - something I didn't know. My daughter told me this. I'll get moving on that after I come back.

I'M GOING TO HAVE A GREAT CHRISTMAS

[Janet]

I love your last line...and you sure are going to have a great Christmas. I am just thrilled for you. You won't have any of the 'mess' just the joy.

I know what you mean about the snow. This week we had our first real snow and then we had some ice. I'm ready to move where this doesn't happen very much.

Hey Diana and Sheryl...do you guys get much snow and cold? LOL

[Forgivenmom5]

Judy I am so glad you are going to spend Christmas with your family. I know you will have a great time.

[DianaB]

Originally Posted by Janet

Hey Diana and Sheryl...do you guys get much snow and cold? LOL

Sunday we had enough ice to really coat the roads and make them really slick and yesterday it got warm enough to melt some of it. Today we were suppose to get more ice but it ended up that we had rain. However, tonight and tomorrow we're suppose to get more ice. We'll see. So far things haven't been as bad as the forecast predicted. Sheryl is further south than I am and I think that the ice has missed her but she's had rain.

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Janet

I love your last line...and you sure are going to have a great Christmas. I am just thrilled for you. You won't have any of the 'mess' just the joy.

I know what you mean about the snow. This week we had our first real snow and then we had some ice. I'm ready to move where this doesn't happen very much.

Hey Diana and Sheryl...do you guys get much snow and cold? LOL

As Diana says, it's just been messy wet here. They are calling for snow this weekend so who knows ??

I know we need the rain here but i kinda wish it would dry up a tad. Hubby and I are trying to get out and so some fencing.

Judy - 2008 looks like it might have a new home for ya!! Yippee!