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Old 10-17-2011, 04:49 PM   #1
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Hope It Doesn't Bore You

I truly hope I don't bore you when I write that I still miss my Mom. Yesterday was sort of a bad day for me. Oh I was still able to get done what needed done, but I kept thinking of Mom telling me how sorry she was when she would make a mess...not getting to the bathroom in time. I would always tell her it's okay....even if I had to shampoo the carpet. Don't know why I kept thinking of those different times, but they were hard to shake and I felt so sorry for her all over again.

While the guy was working in at Mom's, I was telling Jerry what I was thinking yesterday and he told me "you need to let it go." It's still too early for me to not think of Mom and really miss her. Even Rick said it was strange to come home from work and not find her sitting in the recliner. I'm glad my brothers are able to get on with life....but right now....my heart is still aching.
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Old 10-17-2011, 05:37 PM   #2
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Oh my NO! It doesn't bore us at all - that's what friends are for to be here for you, whenever you need us, for whatever you need us! I can't imagine what it is like to miss my mom, and I'm sure I'll be on here too, when that day comes. I'm glad we are here for you to share you thoughts and feelings with! Love you, Janet!
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Old 10-17-2011, 06:07 PM   #3
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We love you Janet, and always want to know what you think and feel!

I would be worried about you if you DIDN'T think about your mom every day. She has been your mom every day for your whole life, you can't just "let it go". MEN My mom has been gone for 5 years, and I still think about her every single day. Most days now, the memories just make me smile...but I still have those days that I cry for her, and miss her so much I can barely stand it.

You are just beginning to realize that she is really gone. That's the hard part. You still have a year of those awful "firsts" to go through. You talk to us about your mom any time you want to. We'll be right here for you!!
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Old 10-17-2011, 06:24 PM   #4
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Ditto what Betsi said. Keep talking and we'll lovingly listen.
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Old 10-17-2011, 07:55 PM   #5
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Old 10-18-2011, 06:34 PM   #6
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You talk to us as often as you need to about your Mom!
Mom's are special. Mine can drive me crazy, but a life without her? Can't imagine.

So talk. We care about you... we have shared your loss, we will share your memories. We will share your tears. [HUGS]
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